Jtizzle Posted August 22, 2005 Posted August 22, 2005 My ex has three ex wives, and he has custody of all of his children, and so i was like, do you let your kids see their mothers? and he goes, "no cause their all skanks." he "SAYS" that everyone of them cheated on him which made him leave and whanot..now im not gonna sit here and be all gullible and say aww poor thing..because if they did cheat, i see exactly why..he doesnt do what he should be doing as a man to show his "woman" that he appreciates them for who they are and what they do for him. case example, he's stationed in hawaii right now, we cant be with each other physically so i sent him a care package of goodies, a letter, and sum of my personal stuff so that he could have something of "ME"...um im still waitin on my package from him as we speak..all i ask from his is ONE stinkin shirt, is that too much? I told him about this guy at my job who befriended me and thought that i was nice to him since i was the only person at work that talked to him, and he brought me flowers and laffy taffy which is my fav. candy..i told my ex, and he got pissed and said i was sendin wrong signals, and that no other man should be buyin me flowers or anything for that matter..so basically he got mad at the fact that "sum other guy" was takin "HIS" job..well aint like he did his job anyway, and then he wonder why people cheat. my question is this, why do "some" men let a chick go balls out of her way for them, and then "THEY" cant even do the minimum in the relationship..its like the chick does 95 percent of the work, while the lazy ass bum only does five, and yet he is the main one complainin about stuff..how is that fair? and then wanna get mad cause "their" not doin the job they are supposed to, so the lady gives her attention to somebody who will treat her right? and then she gets to be called a no good woman why is that? are their any good men out there who know how to treat a woman, a lady, cause im starting to give up hope now?
alphamale Posted August 22, 2005 Posted August 22, 2005 Originally posted by Jtizzle are their any good men out there who know how to treat a woman, a lady, cause im starting to give up hope now? women don't want to be with men who treat them good always and give them attention and fawn all over them, etc.... you are a perfect example... when it comes to women, nice guys usually do finish last.
Outcast Posted August 22, 2005 Posted August 22, 2005 Alpha, could you not start singing a new tune someday? It's boooooooooooooooooooriiiinnnnnnnggggggggggg.
alphamale Posted August 22, 2005 Posted August 22, 2005 Originally posted by Outcast Alpha, could you not start singing a new tune someday? It's boooooooooooooooooooriiiinnnnnnnggggggggggg. oh I'm so sorry, I retract that last stmt OUTCAST. *JTIZZLE* - you should leave this bad dude who treats you like krap. you deserve better. find a 'nice guy' who will take care of all your needs and treat you like gold.
Author Jtizzle Posted August 22, 2005 Author Posted August 22, 2005 Originally posted by alphamale women don't want to be with men who treat them good always and give them attention and fawn all over them, etc.... you are a perfect example... when it comes to women, nice guys usually do finish last. naw thats not tru...sum nice guys do finish first..and im not a perfect example of the women who want bad boys..i iant lookin for that..i aint sayin dude gotta give me attention all the time and "fawn" over me,etc..but damn when i do something nice for his stank ass, please and thank you, goes a long damn way.. an occasional out of the blue nice sayin, thought, or action would be nice too..geesh dont make me do all the work in the relationship and then make me seem like the badguy cuz u suck
alphamale Posted August 22, 2005 Posted August 22, 2005 Originally posted by Jtizzle naw thats not tru...sum nice guys do finish first..and im not a perfect example of the women who want bad boys..i iant lookin for that..i aint sayin dude gotta give me attention all the time and "fawn" over me,etc..but damn when i do something nice for his stank ass, please and thank you, goes a long damn way.. an occasional out of the blue nice sayin, thought, or action would be nice too..geesh dont make me do all the work in the relationship and then make me seem like the badguy cuz u suck if you don't like it then leave him and find some one else. we all make our own choices and have to sleep in the bed we make.
loony Posted August 22, 2005 Posted August 22, 2005 Originally posted by Jtizzle My ex has three ex wives, Three?????? I bet he knows how to spell "issues" and "baggage"... Are you sure you want to stay with this guy? What does it say about you if you stay with a guy who probably is highly irresponsible, not very caring and with whom you're not very happy? You should reconsider if this is really what you want.
Mz. Pixie Posted August 22, 2005 Posted August 22, 2005 Whether or not someone is a good guy doesn't mean a hill of beans when it comes to cheating. The guy is just not that into you in the first place.
RecordProducer Posted August 22, 2005 Posted August 22, 2005 Originally posted by alphamale women don't want to be with men who treat them good always and give them attention and fawn all over them, etc.... you are a perfect example... when it comes to women, nice guys usually do finish last. What about men? Do you like it when it's hot-cold-hot-cold or warm and nice all the time? Tll me from your experience and how you would like it in the present/future. Just being curious..
alphamale Posted August 22, 2005 Posted August 22, 2005 Originally posted by RecordProducer What about men? Do you like it when it's hot-cold-hot-cold or warm and nice all the time? personally i hate warm-n-nice all the time....too boring.
Horse Posted August 22, 2005 Posted August 22, 2005 Originally posted by RecordProducer What about men? Do you like it when it's hot-cold-hot-cold or warm and nice all the time? Tll me from your experience and how you would like it in the present/future. Just being curious.. I could go for some consistant warm and nice about now. Hot and cold is more fun for short term... when there is more hot than cold. It's a lot easier to maintain the cold than it is the hot. You end up with warm and cold. Or just cold. Silly question though. I don't think I've ever known a woman who wasn't the hot and cold type. At least not one under 40.
MWC_LifeBeginsAt40 Posted August 22, 2005 Posted August 22, 2005 Maybe he needed all of his shirts. I think that's kind of a weird request. I hope you didn't break up over that. Woggle, are you having a bad day?
alphamale Posted August 22, 2005 Posted August 22, 2005 Originally posted by Horse It's a lot easier to maintain the cold than it is the hot. You end up with warm and cold. Or just cold. are u doing laundry HORSE? I don't think I've ever known a woman who wasn't the hot and cold type. At least not one under 40. its pretty much the same with the over-40 ones also...
RecordProducer Posted August 22, 2005 Posted August 22, 2005 Originally posted by Woggle Women are not worth any effort. Men are?
Woggle Posted August 22, 2005 Posted August 22, 2005 Originally posted by RecordProducer Men are? Keep a man happy he will loyal for life. Keep a woman happy wait you can't keep a woman happy.
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