wakamiya Posted August 22, 2005 Posted August 22, 2005 Just not again. I thought I would post another message, it helps me get my anger out... I am a seventeen year old girl. The guy I had an interest for, decided we didn't really have anything several months ago. The fighting was so bad, in a course of a year that we realized we got sick of each other. Now he constantly vents about how there's nothing good in life, and how romance is dumb. I'm not really a romantic myself. And in fact, when I was going out with him, I liked being just good friends instead. So it doesn't work. He tells me he doesn't really care what gender people are... but I notice he sends harmless flirty signals to women who are a bit older than me... it's painful to watch that. He makes me feel like I'm never going to be good enough. These women are strong, have things of their own going on, and Have about a decade over me on age. It's just fustrating... Maybe I'm not intelligent enough? Maybe I don't have anything going for me to be found attractive? I wouldn't know where to start if I even wanted to change. I could work on my education, and read more books - that would help me become a better person, I think? I thought I didn't care about him anymore because I've been busy...but tonight has just been blue. My friend says "it's not worth the time and effort" which sort of helped me. Hope everybody on the forums is holding their heads up high. (or trying to )
sburtug03 Posted August 22, 2005 Posted August 22, 2005 Absolutely nothing is wrong with you, other than your taste! This guy is an idiot particularly for treating you the way he has! Ohh it makes me angry! You need to leave him completely alone for your health in general. Have you realised that you are questioning yourself as to why you are not good enough for him? That is ridiculous! This is a confidence issue on your part, you need to improve your outlook on yourself whether this means by making new friends, starting new activities, etc, be happy within yourself. You seem to like this moron simply because you seek his approval and as you have low self esteem / confidence issues you believe in his stupid opinion of you. Love yourself and then you will not need to seek the love from anyone, it will come from someone much better, all by itself. Luv Samantha x
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