lil_carlitos Posted August 22, 2005 Posted August 22, 2005 hey guys im having som really bad issues atm. like me n my gf been together for 5 months n once we went on a breal but couldnt even last 2days w/o her but tha doesnt matter. well like talk to my ex...this girl i had a fling with for bout 2 weeks n like we talked about meetin up again well she actually n i didnt want anything to do with her but being so nice i was like yeh maybe sometime soon...and then she sent a msg sayin she wanted o sort her feelings out before we did anything but my gf read the msg n liek i had no hesitations cuse i have notin to hide n like the msg sounded like as if it was more than meeting up...and i didnt liek it n my gf got all upset thinkin i was cheatin but id never cheat in her, i love her to much n seriously cant live w/o. and today like she syain she wants a break till things go back to normal but i really didnt anything at all...like i was never gonna meet this girl up anywayz, like i want nothin to do with her. i told my gf this n how i feel bout her n stuff but like i dunno, feels like ive done something wrong even tho i havent done anything. i really want her back n to make her believe me. please someone give me some advice.
Sparky Posted September 17, 2005 Posted September 17, 2005 It sounds like your girlfriend jumps to conclusions before looking into the situation. God, I hate these people!! Anyways, I can imagine the situation. I'll try my best to help, but I have to be honest, I've never been in this situation before. 5 months is a short relationship. Assuming that you've only known this girl for 5 months, I shouldn't be very surprised at the reaction. For you've known her for a longer period of time, say like a year or more, it should be her fault for jumping to the wrong conclusion, because she should know you better than that. Hmmm... How long ago did you have this fling with this other girl? How serious was it? If it wasn't too long before your relationship with your gf, and was rather serious, I'd say her reaction wasn't too off. You need to talk with your girlfriend and make her understand that you would never cheat on her. Is there a situation you can get in to prove it to her? For example, both of you go to a place where girls can easily pick you up. I hope this helps.
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