Purplelilac Posted December 10, 2017 Posted December 10, 2017 (edited) I met this guy who started to say hello to me all the time when I frequented this store about 3 times a week. He would make it a point to come to the registar stand there and say hello to me. I felt awkward so I just say hello and continue..I do smile though. I like him, but our hello never moves into a full conversation and its weird for me now. But EVERY time I go in, he appears and he works in the back..lol. At first, I was thinking maybe he doesn't like me but just being friendly, but for 2 months now consistently he says hello and my name. Sometimes my back is turned because I am leaving but he will say something so I have to turn around and see him..lol. By the way we did have one intense flirting/stare thing and it was really electric. So my thing is this...maybe he likes me but he is an employee, it may be against co. policy for him to approach me like that.....so friends request him..bam I have my answer..I would just rather know..... What is making me think he really likes me alot is the its EVERY SINGLE TIME I go there he finds a way to come talk to me....and I am so shy that I don't engage too much...but then again he will approach me the next time for sure..and he is making it extremely obvious..but still I ask..what is up. I am starting to get anxiety before I go to the store now. The issue is...he is at least 12 years younger than me. I look super young for mmy age although I sense he knows I"m older than him. I don't want to appear desperate, but I want to friends requet him FB. I sent him a message on IM on facebook but since we are not connected, someone told me its possible he wil not even see it. I don't want to play games or waste my time. The amount of energy he is spending to really come up to me to say hello is excessive and if I didn't like him, it would be creepy. But I do like him alot despite the age thing, but we can just be friends, I dont care.\ If I friends request him does it seem funny or weird? I wanted to give him a chance to say more then "hello" now,..it has to move to a conversation or he needs to quit coming up to me so much now , its getting awkward. I only found him becuse I was on the store fb page and saw someone I know post something, then looked on the friends list and there he was........ Edited December 10, 2017 by Purplelilac
Sunlight72 Posted December 10, 2017 Posted December 10, 2017 (edited) It is possible he is shy and/or trying not to harass you more than his company would allow. I personally don't think friending on facebook is clear enough. Why don't you write your name and phone number/email and "call me" or "call me?" on a piece of paper and have it in your pocket the next time you go in. After you've bought your stuff and he's saying hi, just hand it to him, smile, and walk out. If that doesn't get him to contact you, write another note for the next time, that says "Missed your chance. Please don't waste my time. Best wishes." If he keeps coming up to talk to you after that, just don't look at him or even grunt when he comes over. Even if it doesn't grow into something with you two, you can help him learn that he needs to be more clear about what he wants in his life. It's a good lesson for all of us, so don't be timid! Edited December 10, 2017 by Sunlight72 1
kendahke Posted December 10, 2017 Posted December 10, 2017 He sounds creepy to me, to the point where I'd lay off going into that store. I guess I've been listening to too many episodes of "Sword and Scale"...
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