his new relationship, is he missing me?

[april19]

Hey all, my ex and I broke up roughly three months ago. Our relationship had no issues and he still loved me after we broke up but felt he was lost and our lives were headed in different directions temporarily. Anyways, he started dating this new girl only a couple weeks after we broke up and he's been with her for about 2.5 months. No they had not been talking before the breakup so he didn't leave me for her. She seems like a good person but somewhat insecure, she stalked my social media a lot and constantly posts pictures of them everywhere or mimics the things I post as if it's a competition. He hasn't posted anything except one pic with her, although he's not big on social medi. We've been NC for 1.5 months after an argument and I was convinced he was over me and madly in love with this new girl until yesterday I came across a new playlist he made on Spotify of 40 songs all about breakups and missing exes and thinking about old times and regrets etc. He's still with her because she's still blasting lovey posts and pictures. Am I reading too much into this or does it sound like she's way more into him than he's into her? Opinions on the situation and the music? He's an emotional guy so the music he listens to usually depends on his mood. I'm NOT interested in "just move on stop overthinking it" or "stop looking at their social media" responses. These are all things I am aware I need to do and have been doing however the new music caught me off guard and makes me wonder if he's thinking about or missing me.

[HumanMachine]

You haven’t been NC if you’ve been stalking his social media. And more fool you if you don’t think him and the new girl weren’t talking prior to your breakup.

 

If he was thinking about you he’d contact you. He hasn’t.

[stillafool]

Yes you are reading more into it than it is. This is what happens when you spy on their social media. If he is in love with you why would he leave you? If you two are going in different directions did he come up with a solution to try to stay with you? No. Instead he entered a new relationship with a totally new girl. He is where he wants to be or he would leave her the way he left you. It would be best for you to stop stalking their social media so you can move on and get over him.

[april19]

Yes you are reading more into it than it is. This is what happens when you spy on their social media. If he is in love with you why would he leave you? If you two are going in different directions did he come up with a solution to try to stay with you? No. Instead he entered a new relationship with a totally new girl. He is where he wants to be or he would leave her the way he left you. It would be best for you to stop stalking their social media so you can move on and get over him.

 

 

He left me because he felt he couldn't give me what I needed right now and wasn't sure how to handle major changes going on in his life at the time while balancing a relationship with me an hour away. His words were "if I'm going to be with you again one day I want it to be for the long term, and given I don't know what the short term holds for me right now I'm not sure it's fair to you." So no, the breakup had nothing to do with his feelings for me or faults in our relationship. He is a very emotionally dependent guy and before he started dating this girl he was talking to another and almost dated her before she went psycho and he started talking to his current gf. Basically he's afraid of being alone and not having the emotional support from a relationship which is why he jumped into another one. Again, I appreciate your feedback but I'm not looking for the issues I need to work on like checking their social media. This is the first time I have in a month and it was only because I came across the playlist from a notification and was curious if they had broken up.

[stillafool]

Am I reading too much into this or does it sound like she's way more into him than he's into her? Opinions on the situation and the music? He's an emotional guy so the music he listens to usually depends on his mood. I'm NOT interested in "just move on stop overthinking it" or "stop looking at their social media" responses. These are all things I am aware I need to do and have been doing however the new music caught me off guard and makes me wonder if he's thinking about or missing me.

 

I was responding to your first question and the my answer still stands.

 

 

Whether he is missing you or not only time will tell but I'm sure he has thought of you. Whether he misses you or not would depend on how long you were together as a couple. How long?

[april19]

I was responding to your first question and the my answer still stands.

 

 

Whether he is missing you or not only time will tell but I'm sure he has thought of you. Whether he misses you or not would depend on how long you were together as a couple. How long?

 

Only just over 6 months so it wasn't a LTR but in all my relationships I've never felt so connected to anyone and he constantly told me the same thing.