The ex broke up with me but has a spy?

[funnyguy123]

So my ex girlfriend broke up with me a while back before the summer started Odd enough we are in the same program so we do have a significant amount of classes together.

 

Long story short, she played games as if she wanted me to chase her. She still is playing games and people see it.

 

After we broke up, i started going on dates with this other girl. Ended up being in a relationship for a little bit.

 

During that relationship, my ex's best friend made an odd comment about me being a "bachelor" because I had a busy life I didn't really respond to that and left it as it is.

 

Anyways, the relationship ended. I am back to being single. Odd enough, I always see my ex girlfriend looking at me. staring at me. I see her looking because I used the mirror to look at her indirectly while she looks at me.

 

Continuing on with the story, I was out with my friends and that same best friend was with us. We were all sitting and having drinks and I was talking to my friend about my previous relationship and how things just didn't go well. The best friend began asking questions and so on and so forth.

 

I know her friend is spying.

 

Why would her friend be spying? What is the intent?

[d0nnivain]

If you want to try to reconcile with your EX GF, talk directly to her. Cut out the middleman (the spy). If you don't want to reconcile, do not have any personal or deep conversations within earshot of the spy. In fact, avoid the spy like you would avoid the EX. Problem solved.

[funnyguy123]

If you want to try to reconcile with your EX GF, talk directly to her. Cut out the middleman (the spy). If you don't want to reconcile, do not have any personal or deep conversations within earshot of the spy. In fact, avoid the spy like you would avoid the EX. Problem solved.

 

I do want to be with her again. But it's a little hard to talk to her directly especially since shes surrounded with her friends all the time.

[usa1ah]

Why did she break up with you?

[funnyguy123]

Why did she break up with you?

 

she said she wanted space.

[HumanMachine]

Spy is a bit of an overstatement isn’t it? More like friends gossiping..

[funnyguy123]

Spy is a bit of an overstatement isn’t it? More like friends gossiping..

 

Yes, friends gossiping. But why? Why do this?

[Highndry]

Long story short, she played games as if she wanted me to chase her. She still is playing games and people see it.

 

I do want to be with her again. But it's a little hard to talk to her directly especially since shes surrounded with her friends all the time.

 

Why did she break up with you?

 

she said she wanted space.

 

Why do you want somebody like this back? She's not going to change. In fact, she's going to dump you again, guaranteed. She didn't respect you or give you a valid reason for leaving. She's a selfish woman who does not have your interests in mind whatsoever.

[HumanMachine]

Yes, friends gossiping. But why? Why do this?

 

That is what friends (particularly females) do......

[d0nnivain]

Presumably you know how to get in touch with her for a private conversation. Try that.

 

 

Otherwise have some backbone. Walk up to her & say can we talk? Then either give the friends a death glare until they leave or steer her away from the group. People will understand that you don't want to personal matters in front of an audience.