randzilla Posted November 29, 2017 Posted November 29, 2017 As a man I'm sure this is a weird complaint but I get the feeling I'm being used. I've dated her for a while sometimes she's super affectionate and loving(when she's horny maybe). Then she'll be cold for a bit. Should I decline next time she invites me over? I kinda fear if I decline she'll just find another. Or should I just take it for what it is and maybe down the road things will work out.
Author randzilla Posted November 29, 2017 Author Posted November 29, 2017 We've gone on plenty. The random day's of silence just throw me off. I try to look at it as sometimes absence makes the heart grow fonder. So it could be a good thing.
hercules22 Posted November 30, 2017 Posted November 30, 2017 maybe your used to being contacted on a daily basis when dating someone?
Author randzilla Posted November 30, 2017 Author Posted November 30, 2017 I am she gives me vibes like she's super into me when were together. So day's of no contact throw me off. I just sit back and relax and let her contact me.
BluesPower Posted November 30, 2017 Posted November 30, 2017 I am she gives me vibes like she's super into me when were together. So day's of no contact throw me off. I just sit back and relax and let her contact me. Help me understand... So being used for sex is a bad thing. Wow, I have been very mistreated...LOL. But seriously, if you want a real relationship, have a talk. It is really that simple. Better to know what she thinks than sit around and wonder. If she is not into a relationship then you don't have to have sex with her. Or if you are OK with a FWB relationship then steady as she goes... Also, never look needy or chase a woman too hard, let them come to you. 2
lovephule Posted November 30, 2017 Posted November 30, 2017 Should I decline next time she invites me over? What would you be trying to achieve by declining?
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