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Should guys make the first move?


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Are girls waiting for us to move in? Or do they flirt first?

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If she isn't dialing 911 when you walk up, you're good to go ;)

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Are girls waiting for us to move in? Or do they flirt first?

 

Some are very outgoing and will approach you, or chat you up once you get close. But in general the answer is neither, meaning that they are likely preoccupied with other things and may not even notice you.

 

So yes, most men will have to take an active role in establishing contact.

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It depends on the girl.

 

 

CW & years of social conditioning still says the guy makes the first move. before you move, it is a good idea to take a minute or two to assess how receptive she may be.

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Girls are naturally friendly, they know there value I would start with a simple hi

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It depends. How good looking are you? The best strategy is to be exceptionally handsome. If you're average, it's harassment.

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I have usually made the first move, though I do want to see the guy pursue if you know what I mean

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I get it, and it's all in the push and pull. Be ok to approach and be flirty...then pull away. If the carrot you are dangling in front of them is enticing, they will chase.

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I'm naturally friendly with everyone so I'll approach everyone male or female.

I don't really care if I was the one to say hi or the other way round as long as there's mutual interest.

 

If a guy respects me less because I made the first move: that's a dealbreaker.

Most guys feel flattered.

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