newbby Posted August 20, 2005 Posted August 20, 2005 mm are just dirty dogs, get rid of them. dont speak to them again, dont take it as a reflection on you, it is them who should be worried what you think of them, not the other way round. try to see them as they really are. why would you want them, anyway? be a lady and wait for a gentleman. put all the affair in the past and leave it there, dont worry about it anymore. thank heavens you got rid of them huh? repeat it to yourself over and over until you change the way you are thinking about it. 1
ww Posted August 20, 2005 Posted August 20, 2005 mm are just dirty dogs, get rid of them.I TOTALLY DISAGREE ( i could never fall in love with a dirty dog ) dont speak to them again, dont take it as a reflection on you, it is them who should be worried what you think of them, not the other way round. TRUE, BUT HARD TO ACHIVE try to see them as they really are. why would you want them, anyway?IT IS HEART TO CHOOSE NOT THE MIND be a lady and wait for a gentleman. FOR HOW LONG? put all the affair in the past and leave it there, dont worry about it anymore. thank heavens you got rid of them huh? A+! VERY VERY RIGHT repeat it to yourself over and over until you change the way you are thinking about it. OR YOU BECOME A BUDDHIST THAT DOES THIS MANTRA
Author newbby Posted August 20, 2005 Author Posted August 20, 2005 yeah okay, i am probably going crazy on cold turkey. honestly it really is like giving up smoking or something. 1
joodee Posted August 20, 2005 Posted August 20, 2005 At least you can take a hose and clean up a dirty dog!!!! Yes, MMs are LOWER than that!! Well put, Newwby. 1
Author newbby Posted August 20, 2005 Author Posted August 20, 2005 ahh hello joodee, are you also on nc?
BoatingBabe Posted August 20, 2005 Posted August 20, 2005 I agree, they are manipulating dirty dogs!! They're hard to get rid of once you contact it...like a disease or hemorrhoids....lol...but in time, thankfully, you get rid of them and get cleansed...hopefully to never contact the disease again... 1
RecordProducer Posted August 20, 2005 Posted August 20, 2005 Originally posted by ww be a lady and wait for a gentleman. FOR HOW LONG? And for how long should a woman wait for the MM to leave his wife? What kind of question is that? Any relationship with no perspective should be quit and the right person should be sought. While OW waste their time with MM, single women catch nice single men for marriage and have kids with them!
joodee Posted August 20, 2005 Posted August 20, 2005 Hi Newwby, For the most part, yes, he's come by the office a couple of times this week for a few minutes at a time (we work a the same company, different departments), but that's it. No other contact outside of work. I tell myself over and over again that I am no longer a mistress. He looks more pathetic each time he stops by, so the mantra is working. And I feel stronger (reading posts here help when I feel down). Going cold turkey is the way. Good for you and your NC!!!! Keep it up.
BoatingBabe Posted August 20, 2005 Posted August 20, 2005 I am in NC as well, we work together and do run into eachother several times a day, but contact has been kept for professional reasons only. It's kinda weird, but after a week, I am getting used to it...despite his dirty tricks.
ww Posted August 20, 2005 Posted August 20, 2005 Originally posted by RecordProducer And for how long should a woman wait for the MM to leave his wife? What kind of question is that? Any relationship with no perspective should be quit and the right person should be sought. While OW waste their time with MM, single women catch nice single men for marriage and have kids with them! just for how long should a woman wait??? ladies get out there and find yourself a gentleman. we are in 2005. NO MORE WAITING
Author newbby Posted August 20, 2005 Author Posted August 20, 2005 mantras do work. the brain is just a machine and creating new pathways is key in any addiction.
RecordProducer Posted August 20, 2005 Posted August 20, 2005 Originally posted by newbby the brain is just a machine and creating new pathways is key in any addiction. Just a machine??? And who operates this machine? Other people? Hope you haven't joined some sect, hun! The brain is a miracle, a wonderful operating system, so unexplored... it's just the opposite of a stupid machine that does what others tell it to do.
RecordProducer Posted August 20, 2005 Posted August 20, 2005 Originally posted by newbby no i havent joined a sect. Okay. Sorry.
lynnered Posted August 21, 2005 Posted August 21, 2005 but i like dogs just kidding so if MM are dogs.. what do u get when u lay down with dogs ?? lol
Blackfrost Posted August 21, 2005 Posted August 21, 2005 Blackfrost <---- Terrible Dog. Should be put to sleep.
starreyes Posted August 21, 2005 Posted August 21, 2005 Originally posted by Blackfrost Blackfrost <---- Terrible Dog. Should be put to sleep. oh Blackfrost.......you're probably the mushy poodle..you don't fool me. lol
Blackfrost Posted August 21, 2005 Posted August 21, 2005 oh Blackfrost.......you're probably the mushy poodle..you don't fool me. lol SHHHHH!!!! you're blowing my cover
starreyes Posted August 21, 2005 Posted August 21, 2005 Originally posted by Blackfrost SHHHHH!!!! you're blowing my cover oops....haha, ok, not another word about your mush. You don't blow my cover and I won't blow yours, deal? lol
Good&BadGuy Posted August 21, 2005 Posted August 21, 2005 Originally posted by lynnered but i like dogs just kidding so if MM are dogs.. what do u get when u lay down with dogs ?? lol Good one. So does that make OW Dog Catchers or Dog Cleaners?
lynnered Posted August 21, 2005 Posted August 21, 2005 Originally posted by Good&BadGuy Good one. So does that make OW Dog Catchers or Dog Cleaners? dog magnets
Author newbby Posted August 21, 2005 Author Posted August 21, 2005 So does that make OW Dog Catchers or Dog Cleaners? legs!
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