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After a week of NC my ex texted me with

 

EX GF TEXT: Hi, I doubt you still have my number since you removed me from everything but I just need to say something. I just wanted to say I hope you genuinly hope you have a nice thanksgiving break with your family. I also hope you find happiness in whatever you do. I realize you probally dont want to talk to me but i wont lie, I was suprised to say the least that it has gone this far after all that you have told me. I wish you the best and I still hope that someday we can be friends again. I am sorry to bother you

 

MY RESPONSE: You have not bothered me...I cared for you in such a way where for me there was no going back....I have no hard feelings in the slightest towards you and I wish the best in the world.

 

HER RESPONSE TO THAT: I understand...I wish that I could help or change that. Anyways, I really do miss hanging out with you and i dont expect anything but if you ever just want to talk or hang out....im around. I hope you had some nice time with mickeyv(my dog) Ill leave you alone now

I did not respond after this

 

I do not want her back at all but what I do want to know is for the sake of my image/confidence did my response seem like I gave her all the "power" back ...i regret responding at all to her

 

Thoughts on my reponse? I really dont want to come off as that emotional desperate guy that some guys do

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This isn't a power play. It's your life. She said her piece. You "listened". There is nothing left to say. Silence is the most powerful response. Leave it alone. Say nothing & go on with your life.

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