Dio castillo Posted November 27, 2017 Posted November 27, 2017 So me and my friend met a girl from Honduras in a social event. We both took a liking of her, but my friend is the one who ask her out on a date and he also asked me to join him(weird, I know). I went alone anyway. So we went to a Tapas place, had some sangria and pork. She said she is low on cash but want to pay on credit card, but the restaurant don't accept it. So me and my friend paid the most of it and she paid with little cash she had in her wallet. Then we went to another wine bar, we ordered 3 wines for each of us, after we finished drinking, she offered to pay by credit card again. This time she paid the bill for three of us!. I offered to pay her back but she only said no problem just buy me a drink next time. So I accepted her offer. So what do you guys think of this? Is it ok for her buy us drinks on a 1st group dates and I buy her drinks later? Since she kept saying she had great time with us guys more then once, so I think its ok. Please feel free to let me know your opinions! Thanks
smackie9 Posted November 27, 2017 Posted November 27, 2017 She was just paying you guys back for covering most of her dinner bill. Don't read too much into that. Some people....even women, don't want to look like a scrub. 5
smackie9 Posted November 27, 2017 Posted November 27, 2017 BTW she may have put you guys into the friends zone. She likes hanging out with you....doesn't mean romantic feelings are occurring. If you like her ask her out on a date....that's how it's done. 1
Author Dio castillo Posted November 27, 2017 Author Posted November 27, 2017 BTW she may have put you guys into the friends zone. She likes hanging out with you....doesn't mean romantic feelings are occurring. If you like her ask her out on a date....that's how it's done. I agree, Because this guy my friend does not believe himself, he always wanted me to play the "wings" for him. He will always screwed things up even when I am with him. Since I like this girl also, so I just took this opportunity for myself. I was the leader the entire time when we were out together. When he screwed up, I am the one who make plans and lead him over.
Shining One Posted November 28, 2017 Posted November 28, 2017 There are plenty of non-entitled women out there. Be glad that you have one in your circle, even if she just ends up being a friend.I offered to pay her back but she only said no problem just buy me a drink next time.The fact that she wants there to be a next time is a positive sign. It's too early to tell if there is romantic interest, but it's a positive nonetheless.
No_Go Posted November 28, 2017 Posted November 28, 2017 Ugh? You paid for the dinner she paid for the next thing. I simply can’t imagine doing anything else in a friends group. Would you do it differently if you were her?!
PegNosePete Posted November 28, 2017 Posted November 28, 2017 I agree, Because this guy my friend does not believe himself, he always wanted me to play the "wings" for him. He will always screwed things up even when I am with him. Since I like this girl also, so I just took this opportunity for myself. I was the leader the entire time when we were out together. When he screwed up, I am the one who make plans and lead him over. Wow, with friends like you, who needs enemies!
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