frank2829 Posted November 27, 2017 Posted November 27, 2017 It all started with him Cheating on me with some kid he use to talk to. When he told me it ruined me and i broke up with him. I decided to get him out of my mind by going out with other guys. One day i was so down that i just had sex with a person and little did i know that that would be one of the worst things I’ve ever done in my life. Two days after i slept with that guy my ex came to me and begged me for forgiveness for what he did. I don’t like keeping secrets from him so I told him what I and done and I saw him cry for the first time. He spent three weeks going back and forth between either wanting me back for just wanting to end it all with me. He eventually decided to end it and he started dating the guy that he kissed. I started moving on but three days after he started dating the other kid he cornered me and kissed me. He wanted me back. H told me the being with that kid made him realize how much he loved me. We got back together and we spent three weeks working on our relationship. We finally got over all the things we did to each other and we were finally getting back to where we were before the initial break up. i thought we were happy again. Then after almost a month of being together again he broke up with me. He told me that in the period of time that we were broken up he was really happy and successful. He said that he's been making a lot of new friends and he has no need for a relationship. Its been a week since we broke up and I don’t know what to do. I need advice. (btw this guy was my first everything and we were together for more than a year)
PegNosePete Posted November 27, 2017 Posted November 27, 2017 It's really not that complicated at all. He is a cheater. What you should do is to eject him from your life completely. In the future don't put up with people who treat you badly, cheat on you, disrespect you, lie to you, etc etc. Then your life will be a lot simpler.
d0nnivain Posted November 27, 2017 Posted November 27, 2017 I understand why it feels complicated to you because there is a lot of emotional turmoil. By the time the cheating & the revenge sex while broken up happened, your relationship was already in shambles. Yet out of sentimentality & fear of the unknown you both tried to resurrect something that was already dying. That didn't work. Your EX knew better than you that this was over. At this point, you need to let it be. Concentrate on healing & moving forward. He may have been your 1st but he won't be your last & he's certainly not your forever
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