Was this wrong of me to bring up?

[ChatroomHero]

Sounds like gas lighting to me. Her actions push you to question your security pretty blatantly and when you question it she accuses you of being insecure.

 

 

The normal reaction to her posting about taking a vacation alone would be, "I thought we were discussing taking a vacation. Now with no mention to me you are posting about taking a vacation without me? That's something people in a relationship would discuss normally". Her reaction would probably be to tell you that you are insecure and she can take a vacation wherever she wants.

 

 

I think it's one thing if there was a new picture she put on her profiles from a recent event and she changed them occasionally, but given she has been moody, called you insecure and replaced them with one with just herself, she is trying to send a message that triggers you to react so she can use your reaction as justification for the final showdown.

[phineas]

Thanks FW, you bring up some good points. Main issues in the past was her going to the bathroom when she got messages and being on Facebook. Like I said she didn't delete the pics. There are still pics of us on her timeline, where I'm referenced as her boyfriend. Does this change anything? Does still sound like something is off?

 

going to the bathroom when she gets a message.........sorry bro but every time a woman i was with did this it was because she was talking to another guy and didn't want to get caught texting him.

[Jdoublenn]

Oh no! I was listening to a radio show last week and they had a lengthy conversation with a "dating expert" saying that your significant other replacing pics of the two of you together with an old pic of themselves on their social media is the number one sign your partner is about to break up with you

 

 

Exactly what I was thinking.

[Purepony]

Drop her before she drops you !

[Highndry]

Thanks FW, you bring up some good points. Main issues in the past was her going to the bathroom when she got messages and being on Facebook. Like I said she didn't delete the pics. There are still pics of us on her timeline, where I'm referenced as her boyfriend. Does this change anything? Does still sound like something is off?

 

This is always a red flag. I'd bet she's a liar at best, and already cheating at worst.

[rickwman]

You need to express to her how you're feeling. Honesty and understanding each other's expectations are very central to an honest and trusting relationship. I'll pray that she opens up to you and you can move on with or without her based on this honesty.