bobross00 Posted November 26, 2017 Posted November 26, 2017 So i was talking to this girl at the bar who i went out with.The only thing we've done together is kissed. I zone out for a few seconds when neither of us is talking. (i pretty much did all of the talking. She didn't say much, but she did come up to me first) Next thing you know, she leaves. While walking past the both of us, she looks my friend in the eyes. He is standing next to me. She looks the entire time as she passes us. I don't know if she's interested in him or if she's trying to make me jealous for not paying her attention. He's a little better looking, so idk.
d0nnivain Posted November 26, 2017 Posted November 26, 2017 You can't read much into the behavior of people in bars, especially if they have been drinking. You & she have kissed. You failed to give her your attention while out with her. She watched a cute guy pass by. Did she know he was your friend? She might have been trying to get his attention so somebody would talk to her while you were ignoring her. Don't get all worked up over this. Go on another date. If you can't pay attention to her, cut her lose. She deserves to date a man who cares enough to not drift off.
Author bobross00 Posted November 26, 2017 Author Posted November 26, 2017 You can't read much into the behavior of people in bars, especially if they have been drinking. You & she have kissed. You failed to give her your attention while out with her. She watched a cute guy pass by. Did she know he was your friend? She might have been trying to get his attention so somebody would talk to her while you were ignoring her. Don't get all worked up over this. Go on another date. If you can't pay attention to her, cut her lose. She deserves to date a man who cares enough to not drift off. Well, my friend was standing next to me. I drifted off partially because i was about to tell him something, but i didn't. That's when she walked past the both of us and eyed him. She knew it was my friend, but this is the first time seeing us together. Her friends were with her, and one of them knew him. She just grabbed her friend's hand and walked off while looking him in the eyes. This was right in front of me, so she knew i would see it. Also, she doesn't drink. Does this add any clarification in determining if she's leaning toward making me jealous vs being attracted to him? To be honest, we're both good looking, but he looks a little better.
d0nnivain Posted November 26, 2017 Posted November 26, 2017 Maybe she was glaring at him trying to get him to go away? I wasn't there. You were. Problem is, your description leaves out all the non verbal cues about body language, tilts of the head, raised eyebrows etc. Honestly I can't tell but I don't get a vibe that she was into him.
Author bobross00 Posted November 26, 2017 Author Posted November 26, 2017 Maybe she was glaring at him trying to get him to go away? I wasn't there. You were. Problem is, your description leaves out all the non verbal cues about body language, tilts of the head, raised eyebrows etc. Honestly I can't tell but I don't get a vibe that she was into him. Thanks and yea. Her expression was completely neutral. My friend was maybe 5 inches from me. This girl was no more than a foot away from us as she walked past the crowded bar. She just looked turned her head slightly the entire time until she passed him. The night before, i ended up talking to her friends, just out of trying to be friendly.
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