celticguy Posted August 25, 2005 Posted August 25, 2005 Originally posted by karatekid That could be a factor. She has made comments like "I feel I can never live up to you" and "I tend to latch on to strong people and end up making them weak. " I'll always be there for her but I doubt I'll ever hear from her. Its all really sad. When she realizes the grass isn't greener or that she wants a "stable" relationship(or life) and is willing to work for it--- it will probably to late for us. I felt the same way, but it doesn't help thinking like that, Something i've realised is that she'll only realise shes going to lose you when you say that you think you shouldn't be together anymore. You should try it, i mean its not going to do any harm to say it: "I don't think we could be together again, im going to have to move on and find someone else to give my love to, its just too hard to be in love with you and not be with you, so goodbye, all my love and best wishes, goodbye" Or something like that, but give her and you some finality, this will tell you were its going and not make it limp on as some sort of quasi wierd relationship. You'll know straight away how she feels then. She'll either agree which will give you the answer you need right now or she'll realise that shes going to lose you and stay. The worst part is still wanting her and her not wanting you, but as long as you still make out like you want her it'll never work.
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