sdraw108 Posted November 21, 2017 Posted November 21, 2017 As my day goes on, I often catch myself thinking things out of habit, as if we're still together. Like, I'll sit down to watch a movie and as I'm choosing one I'll think, "I should save this one to watch together, because she'd probably like it". I can't think of any other good examples right now, but I know I've had a few thoughts like this yesterday. Of course a moment later I realise that my logic is flawed. Anyone else experience this?
PegNosePete Posted November 21, 2017 Posted November 21, 2017 It's quite common. But you should follow up that logic with "... hey, no! I can watch it now, oh yeah get the popcorn on!" 1
HumanMachine Posted November 21, 2017 Posted November 21, 2017 I held off watching Stranger Things 2 thinking we’d watch it together.. nope
Author sdraw108 Posted November 21, 2017 Author Posted November 21, 2017 I held off watching Stranger Things 2 thinking we’d watch it together.. nope Funny you should pick that example. I watched the first two episodes of season 1 a couple of weeks ago, when she'd left. Then we reconciled for a few days, and I rewatched them with her so that we could finish the season (which we did). Now I can't bring myself to watch season 2! Not because I think I'm saving it, but because it's too strongly associated with her / us now. I guess I'll watch it in a few months.
Nothingtolose Posted November 21, 2017 Posted November 21, 2017 Funny you should pick that example. I watched the first two episodes of season 1 a couple of weeks ago, when she'd left. Then we reconciled for a few days, and I rewatched them with her so that we could finish the season (which we did). Now I can't bring myself to watch season 2! Not because I think I'm saving it, but because it's too strongly associated with her / us now. I guess I'll watch it in a few months. Totally - I also watched season 1 with my ex and now putting off watching season 2 because it's associated with him/us - yet he has wasted no time and has already watched it as he mentioned to me last time we spoke. 1
chinadiary Posted November 21, 2017 Posted November 21, 2017 Something funny happens, I think, I'll tell him. I go somewhere nice, think, I'll take him. I read something new, think, he'll like this. I hate it! I want this stage to end. It's torment. 4
toomanyquestions123 Posted November 21, 2017 Posted November 21, 2017 Yeah, happened a while ago. We both like cyanide and happiness and i was checking the comics and there was this one that cracked me up and i wanted to share it with him, then reality kicked in... 1
Hoosfoos Posted November 22, 2017 Posted November 22, 2017 There is something I wanted to tell you It's so funny you'll kill yourself laughing But then I, I look around And I remember that I am alone Alone For evermore 1
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