Did This Girl Ghost Me Because She Thinks I Have a GF?

[Berliner]

I've been talking to this girl at my school library for the past week. She's always at the same place at the same time. We've been getting along well and she even invited me to lunch, I had an exam so couldn't do it.

 

The other day, before we went our separate ways, she asked if I had Facebook. I added her and the following morning we were texting about a class she was taking and she went full 100% ghost out of nowhere. I expected her to respond but nothing.

 

I sent her a message on FB the next day to see if she'd respond. She read my message but never bothered responding. But I realized that there's a photo on my wall of me and a girl (just a friend) side hugging at her birthday party. I don't have a lot on my wall so this would be one of the 1st things people would see.

 

Could she have assumed that this girl is my girlfriend and decided to ghost me? I can't really think of a reason why she'd just ghost me like that out of nowhere.

 

If you think this is the reason, can I do anything to solve this problem? I can delete the photo but that would be too obvious.

 

Thanks!

[alphamale]

I don't know. it could be the photo or it could be one of a million things. you never know with chicks.

 

try once again to contact her, if she doesn't respond then just drop her

[sdraw108]

Has something changed with the library situation? Can you just talk to her in person as you've been doing?

[Berliner]

I don't know. it could be the photo or it could be one of a million things. you never know with chicks.

 

try once again to contact her, if she doesn't respond then just drop her

Yup true. The ghosting is really brutal I mean I sent her a list of class recommendations she should consider next year and not even a thank you? We hugged and said our goodbyes so her behavior is really odd, and so I'm thinking it might be the picture, or maybe this is just the way she treats people she doesn't like.

 

She's had 2 chances to respond, just a thank you would have sufficed and so I think I won't be texting her again, not for a while atleast.

 

Has something changed with the library situation? Can you just talk to her in person as you've been doing?

 

Her semester ended and drove back home, which is why she asked if I had a Facebook to stay in touch. So communicating in person isn't possible right now.

[caveman621]

If you like her and think you want a relationship with her, the best thing to do is just outright ask her!

[smackie9]

IF this was the case...you don't need to be dealing with an immature girl. She would be a pain in the a$$ you having to explain yourself every time some friend likes a post or pic. She would be the type to be going through your phone. You are better off without her my friend.

 

Here's a tip. Never ever give someone you are not exclusive with, access to your social media.

 

Text if you have to, but don't add them ever.

[Ieris]

I agree with smackie9 don't waste your time with this one, it's kind of lame when someone jumps to conclusions like that. I once put up a status "heads or tails" and some guy I was seeing thought I was choosing between him and some other guy, he deleted me. After realizing that it was about something completely different, he tried to add me back, I just ignored him.

[kendahke]

Since she's gone from school and she's not responding, let it go.

 

The timer ran out on this one.

[Yosemite]

She’s on her Thanksgiving break having fun. The last thing she probably wants to do is discuss classes.

 

It's a huge leap to think she must be jealous about a picture on your Facebook when it's more likely that your message to her was dry and she wasn't that interested in the first place.

[Berliner]

Thanks for your feedback y’all. This gal told me she told her mom about me and even prepared and brought me lunch the other day on top of all the other things she’s done. She even asked me for my FB and then proceeds to ghost me. How cruel.