omgWHYME Posted August 19, 2005 Posted August 19, 2005 my mans in the army im in new york city his in texas but were tryna make our relationship last. i feel like hes ready to just call it quits but he said it is just my mind playin tricks on me. i mean he hardly talks to me he either workn or plan old tired. i feel that i have needs too and he wont even tell me he loves me. i feel so distant from him in the beginning we was fine now its like hes a whole new person.
kgal Posted August 20, 2005 Posted August 20, 2005 That is common in a LDR. At times, thats how I feel w/my bf.. but after I talk to him, I feel better and reassured that our love is strong. It takes trust and communication to make it last.. and of course, TRUE LOVE! I do think that making plans to see one another is a good idea in any LDR.. that way you both know when you will see one another again. Good Luck!!
smile95 Posted August 20, 2005 Posted August 20, 2005 I agree with kgal. ALWAYS plan the next trip to look fwd to it. That is what kept mine going so long. It is hard to be in a LDR. You cannot read someone over the phone too well so it is easy to take something and think about it so much that you twist it to be something it is not. It is common for LDR to fizzle a little. It is so imp to see them often.
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