Ex has agreed to meet

[Mtaurus]

Hi everyone!My LDR boyfriend(works in India) and I broke up a month ago because he said it was too hard for him though he still likes me, and told me that we couldn't date anymore. We started talking three weeks later (I initiated it), but he just would not say anything when I say things like "I miss you". He is coming back in December to his homestate(NV), and I asked him if he is coming to DC(where we met and dated) and if we could meet , he said he's probably coming to the east coast and if so we can meet. Does that say at least he still cares?or he just wants something out of me?thanks!

[marky00]

Hi everyone!My LDR boyfriend(works in India) and I broke up a month ago because he said it was too hard for him though he still likes me, and told me that we couldn't date anymore. We started talking three weeks later (I initiated it), but he just would not say anything when I say things like "I miss you". He is coming back in December to his homestate(NV), and I asked him if he is coming to DC(where we met and dated) and if we could meet , he said he's probably coming to the east coast and if so we can meet. Does that say at least he still cares?or he just wants something out of me?thanks!

 

Don't meet up. He's only going to meet you on the account of relieving his guilt. Go hard NC and don't break it unless he walking over hot coals to get a hold of you.

[HumanMachine]

Don't meet up. He's only going to meet you on the account of relieving his guilt. Go hard NC and don't break it unless he walking over hot coals to get a hold of you.

 

Agreed. He doesn’t sound too bothered whether he sees you or not.

[d0nnivain]

If he doesn't want to date you because of the distance, a quit visit doesn't fix the problem. He's coming to be polite. He probably does care but he's made it clear that he doesn't want an LDR.