ExpatInItaly Posted November 19, 2017 Posted November 19, 2017 OP, having read several of your threads, I am going to be blunt and say that you seem to be your own worst enemy. You don't really take accountability for your role in the disappointments you're experiencing, and generally seem to blame the men and position yourself as the wronged party. This would be a good time to reflect on your own actions, too. 6
BaileyB Posted November 19, 2017 Posted November 19, 2017 You do seem to be your own worst enemy. Dating is hard. But, you do seem that you have identified yourself as a victim and/or "the girl for whom it never works out." But, I would argue that you set yourself up to fail by pinning your hopes on men who are not good dating candidates (like this recently divorced man). I would also respectfully suggest that the tone of your posts sounds depressed, and men are likely picking up on the depressed, defeatist, woe is me attitude. If I was you, and I have been you, I would focus less on dating and more on finding some happiness and joy in life again... Good luck. 2
Author mortensorchid Posted November 21, 2017 Author Posted November 21, 2017 To update all on this situation, no response from the party in question. In this case this is my fault, I admit. But the trail went cold and ... It's what it is. Keep moving forward ...
ChatroomHero Posted November 21, 2017 Posted November 21, 2017 To update all on this situation, no response from the party in question. In this case this is my fault, I admit. But the trail went cold and ... It's what it is. Keep moving forward ... For what it's worth, I would expect this from someone recently divorced. Hot and cold, off and on with communication. It wouldn't be my first choice of someone to try to get involved with.
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