Starseed420 Posted November 15, 2017 Posted November 15, 2017 I was with him for two months. I have posted on here about him and how he was flaky sometimes and about the situation. A month before us starting to date he just lost his dad and he has a mother who is really sick. I didn't pressure him at all or bring on emotional things. The most "emotional" we got, I would guess was when we decided to be exclusive or when he would say how much he likes me. He started acting weird and ignoring me, so I texted him a couple days after no response asking if now was not a good time to be involved (we previously spoke about this and he said he was okay with it and he wanted to continue). I guess he had a change of heart, because he said "I'm sorry, I really do like you, I just need space and cannot deal with super emotional stuff right now". I just assumed he ended things, but is saying "needs space" to make it less harsh and maybe make me less upset with the possibility of another shot together one day. I am just not sure if he truly needs space or is just saying that because he lost interest - either way I am going to give him space and leave him alone. I'm not sure why he said he couldn't deal with all this emotional stuff, when I made a point to keep things really light and not bring emotions into it. I didn't bombard him with my feelings for him or pressure him to know how he feels about me. I feel bad because I was a bit insensitive when he broke things off for now, so I probably ruined my chances of seeing him again. I got upset saying he wasted my time (which isn't true) but was said out of disappointment and anger. I plan to text him in a few weeks and apologize.
HumanMachine Posted November 15, 2017 Posted November 15, 2017 He’s just lost his dad and his mother is very ill.. and you’re questioning whether he really needs space? And accused him of wasting your time? Damn.. 1
Author Starseed420 Posted November 15, 2017 Author Posted November 15, 2017 I know! I feel awful. Huge mistake on my part. But we talked a few times about how now might not be a good time (I brought it up), and he told me many times how he was okay with it, liked my company and how I made him feel better. I guess the sudden change of heart made me upset.
Recommended Posts