Started Dating a Woman online..expectations

[JoeSimone68]

I started emailing back and forth with a woman on OLD. Because of both our schedules we couldn't meet for about a month, so we had quite a lot of chat time before first date. First date was great and we talked a lot after. Got together again and things moved quickly into a physical relationship. Had another couple of dates and things grew emotionally and physically serious, agreed to see only each other. I go to remove myself from OLD and see on her profile that she has JUST updated it with her new town (she moved since we've been together" and her last activity was today. I called her out on this as we agreed to be exclusive since we've developed a physical relationship and she said she just likes to look at profiles and flirt and doesn't want to "put all her eggs in one basket." So I suggest we both continue to see other people or maybe not see each other at all and she gets upset saying I'm the only one she wants to see etc. etc. WTF?

[Mkn1010]

She wants the exclusivity that you both agreed on to only apply to you while she looks around!

[CautiouslyOptimistic]

Not cool .

[Chilli]

BS !

Don't try talking her into it or play second, you shouldn't have too and why would you wanna anyway.

[BlueIvy]

Nah, it’s not cool. If she can date other people, so should you. So, you guys already have sex and still wants to see other guys?

[BaileyB]

I go to remove myself from OLD and see on her profile that she has JUST updated it and her last activity was today. I called her out on this as we agreed to be exclusive since we've developed a physical relationship and she said she just likes to look at profiles and flirt and doesn't want to "put all her eggs in one basket."

 

Well, that is not my definition of "exclusive."

 

That, to me, is a big red flag...

[I'veseenbetterlol]

Well, that is not my definition of "exclusive."

 

That, to me, is a big red flag...

 

Next! That is not ok since you both agreed to be exclusive.