Chicago88 Posted November 14, 2017 Posted November 14, 2017 (edited) So long story short, I met this girl through mutual friends. She had just broken up from a past relationship that lastest over 2 years, a month before. We went on a number of dates for 2 months and got closer and closer. Just recently we had the talk, with her mentioning that she isnt looking for a relationship. She had mentioned that she was busy throughout the period between her breaking up and meeting me, and needed time to herself to cope. She mentioned that something could happen in the next couple months as she has time to herself and is less busy with school. I've identified from her friend that she is currently only looking for f**k buddies right now and nothing more. I've been partly radio silent for the most part only replying back with simple answers. I learned just a week after our breakup that she texted a number of people including her old ex and me to hook up with, while recently drunk. I ignored her until the day after to respond and learned from a friend that she did hook up with a another friend of mine. I'm partly mad, but also understand that we really arent together. The question I have is if there is any chance to reconcile in a couple of months? I ask this as I dont know whether I should keep radio silence, but still be on the lookout if someone comes my way or if we possibly reconcile, or be her f**k buddy while looking for someone and and the possibility to reconcile? I still like her but wouldnt be hesitate to look for someone else Edited November 14, 2017 by Chicago88
d0nnivain Posted November 14, 2017 Posted November 14, 2017 Right now she wants to play the field. If it suits you, I'm sure she'd let you back in the rotation but are you going to be OK knowing you are only one of several guys she's having sex with? In the end if you are the last man standing, she may pick you. What's more likely is that some guy will come along & be the guy that makes her want a relationship again. You are not that guy. If you were, she would not have fed you that BS about being too busy with school. If you were everything she wanted, she would not be too busy.
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