didshe Posted November 14, 2017 Posted November 14, 2017 (edited) Hi, I have a pretty old breakup which has been boogling my mind for quite a bit. In February my girlfriend decided to leave me she gave me the "Love but not in love" "if we are meant to be blablabla" Very wierd and mixed signals from her part (breadcrumbs) sent to me, she was she was as well the most happy person in the world after our breakup it seemed like. Anyways, i know for a fact that before our breakup maybe 3 months prior she and an "old flame" talked just as friends, i know they have been throughout our whole relationship sporadically. i have never seen him as a threat as he is such a loser and i am myself "friends" with my old flirts from 7-9 years back. she never met this guy really in person other than maybe 1 time a year at a party with mutual friends or something. They had some kind of flirt when they were 17-19 before me. She met me at 19 and was together with me for 5 years. In December last year i drove her and her best friend to a party that this guy invited them to so i know they must have been in contact then. I have as well done some spying on likes of her instagram and from what i can tell from November till our breakup he cosistently liked her instagram photos which he never really have done before. She breaks up with me in February as stated before and guess where she is 1 month or so after our breakup, thats right that guy. I get told by her that she has "moved on" with this guy in may by her but so far i have not seen anything publicly on FB or Instagram or so with them to so i guess it failed and failed quite hard as i know he has some problems with his personal life etc, he is as well not really her type and basically the complete opposite of what i am. My question is did she leave me for someone else? In my own thoughts it seems like she did, i wouldn´t be in contact with my old flirts if i did not want something romantic with them so i guess i did get left for someone else.. Well then atleast it wasn´t a trade up. With my best regards! Edited November 14, 2017 by didshe
Highndry Posted November 14, 2017 Posted November 14, 2017 It sounds like she had him lined up, but the reality is that you'll never know. There are always lots of questions when somebody leaves you, questions you'll never find answers to.
Author didshe Posted November 14, 2017 Author Posted November 14, 2017 (edited) It sounds like she had him lined up, but the reality is that you'll never know. There are always lots of questions when somebody leaves you, questions you'll never find answers to. Indeed does it sound as she had him lined up, but i find it very wierd that they are not in a rl yet as far as i know they are not seeing eachother anymore. Why is that? Nothing on social media as well of them to maybe he stole her from me used her and she got tricked thinking grass was greener? Edited November 14, 2017 by didshe
Author didshe Posted November 14, 2017 Author Posted November 14, 2017 Also what an absolute douchebag of a guy if so
HumanMachine Posted November 14, 2017 Posted November 14, 2017 Indeed does it sound as she had him lined up, but i find it very wierd that they are not in a rl yet as far as i know they are not seeing eachother anymore. Why is that? Nothing on social media as well of them to maybe he stole her from me used her and she got tricked thinking grass was greener? It really isn’t relevant to you. She’s single now and you should be paying no intention to what she is up to, it will only hurt you. Block her on all social media and move on. 1
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