deliverymyheart Posted November 14, 2017 Posted November 14, 2017 How can she not wonder where I am, ways to reach me. if im ok, if I met someone new. How?
Jdoublenn Posted November 14, 2017 Posted November 14, 2017 The history of the relationship would help but it seems to me you're just hoping for a very general discussion with no details.. Maybe she does miss you? Maybe she's staying away for her own wellbeing. Which is what I'm currently doing with my back-and-forth ex. I miss him like CRAZY but his stupid games aren't something I'm going to join in on. I won't beg or plead. If he needs space I won't be the first one to break it thats for d*** sure. Sounds like you should try and move on and not wonder about her or her feelings because, honestly, its impossible to know or predict how she's feeling or why she's not reaching out. 2
Author deliverymyheart Posted November 14, 2017 Author Posted November 14, 2017 For my one well being and self respect I shouldnt, But I have never felt this way. I have done well since the break up. For some reason the past two weeks I have missed her more and more. Maybe because the holidays are coming up. Relationships suck. Thanks for commenting. Good luck with you and your ex hopefully it gets easier.
d0nnivain Posted November 14, 2017 Posted November 14, 2017 How can she not wonder where I am, ways to reach me. if im ok, if I met someone new. How? She may very well be wondering about you. But that doesn't mean she thinks you should get back together. She could also be emotionally done with the relationship.
didshe Posted November 14, 2017 Posted November 14, 2017 How can she not wonder where I am, ways to reach me. if im ok, if I met someone new. How? Of course she is thinking about you, i am thinking of my old exes from like 7 years what they are up to etc who they are dating just general curiosoty but that does not mean i want to get back together with them. BR
Blanco Posted November 14, 2017 Posted November 14, 2017 I have wondered how exes are doing and I'm sure it goes the other way, too. Doesn't mean we've vocalized it to each other.
PrincessWarrior1 Posted November 14, 2017 Posted November 14, 2017 (edited) Don't forget everybody is now skilled at that whole No Contact healing/manipulation thing... She is probably using NC to get you to obsess and feel exactly the way you are feeling now. Not saying for sure because we have no idea what happen or why it ended, but it's a possibility, just so you know. I'm not going to say too much because I'm still feeling sour, I'll just give you a link so you can read about it for yourself. https://undoabreakup.com/get-your-ex-back-after-no-contact/ https://getyourexbackpermanently.com/the-no-contact-rule-everything-you-need-to-know-about-it/ Also, why does she have to chase you? Did she break up with you? I just feel like men want us women to do all the heavy lifting now. I can remember my grandmother playing solitaire after she took off on my grandfather because of his drinking and mental torture etc... Sure as the day is long, the phone rang. They didn't play head games either. He called. Asked us to breakfast. We went. References: That "heavy lifting" comment is from the book written by both and man and a woman called: He's Just Not That Into You. It means when the guys expect the girls to the calling/chasing. Edited November 14, 2017 by PrincessWarrior1
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