Jimx Posted November 13, 2017 Posted November 13, 2017 Hello, I went to a new school in September, and that one girl caught my eye. We've never talked. I saw her glancing at me a few times in cloackroom. When I was walking down the corrider she was standing behind a corner, our eyes instantly met but she glanced down. She's really pretty, there is a lot of guys after her, I feel as if I won't talk to her now, I might lose my chance with her. What should I do ?
d0nnivain Posted November 13, 2017 Posted November 13, 2017 Try saying hello. Nothing else, just a quick hello when you pass her. Do this for a while, then talk to her about something banal -- an upcoming school test, how the school team is doing or even the weather. What you talk about is less important then you start talking. After talking 2-3x, then you can test the waters to see if she will go on a date with you. Always smile & make eye contact when you talk. be genuinely interested in what she has to say. Good luck.
Author Jimx Posted November 13, 2017 Author Posted November 13, 2017 Try saying hello. Nothing else, just a quick hello when you pass her. Do this for a while, then talk to her about something banal -- an upcoming school test, how the school team is doing or even the weather. What you talk about is less important then you start talking. After talking 2-3x, then you can test the waters to see if she will go on a date with you. Always smile & make eye contact when you talk. be genuinely interested in what she has to say. Good luck. Ayy man... We are not in the same class. There is about 700 students in my school and it usually doesn't work like that. There are groups of people and friends and it's not common there to come to stranger and randomly say hello, it would be very awkward. That's what usually keeps me back from talking to her. We have a few mutual friends, but still I have no idea what I could say...
d0nnivain Posted November 13, 2017 Posted November 13, 2017 First I'm a woman, not a man. Second you have to do something. Don't walk up to her & say hello but when you see her make eye contact & say hi. Nothing more just hi. If you think saying hi is too awkward how the heck are you going to get up the courage to ask her out?
Author Jimx Posted November 13, 2017 Author Posted November 13, 2017 First I'm a woman, not a man. Second you have to do something. Don't walk up to her & say hello but when you see her make eye contact & say hi. Nothing more just hi. If you think saying hi is too awkward how the heck are you going to get up the courage to ask her out? Sorry about that, I didn't check. Just "hi" and nothing else? No conversation, no nothing?
Ieris Posted November 13, 2017 Posted November 13, 2017 The same happened when I was at college, there was a guy in the year above me and we'd always look at each other whenever we saw each other on campus. One time I saw him along the corridor and just said "Hey! Whats your name?" then we got talking and swapped numbers. It's not hard, you just have to pluck up the courage to do it. Even if she is surrounded by friends you just have to treat them invisible and go straight up to her. Another time a guy at school came over to me and said.. "Hey... Are you checking me out?" with a big smile on his face.. I just start laughing and we just got talking from there. Don't think too much about what to say or what she's going to say... just take the first step and say hi then see where it goes from there
Author Jimx Posted November 13, 2017 Author Posted November 13, 2017 The same happened when I was at college, there was a guy in the year above me and we'd always look at each other whenever we saw each other on campus. One time I saw him along the corridor and just said "Hey! Whats your name?" then we got talking and swapped numbers. It's not hard, you just have to pluck up the courage to do it. Even if she is surrounded by friends you just have to treat them invisible and go straight up to her. Another time a guy at school came over to me and said.. "Hey... Are you checking me out?" with a big smile on his face.. I just start laughing and we just got talking from there. Don't think too much about what to say or what she's going to say... just take the first step and say hi then see where it goes from there Yea, I think I will just go for it.
d0nnivain Posted November 13, 2017 Posted November 13, 2017 Just "hi" and nothing else? No conversation, no nothing? Just hi for 2-3 x. You want to get her to acknowledge you exist as opposed to a truly cold approach. After she says hi back once or twice then you can start a conversation.
smackie9 Posted November 13, 2017 Posted November 13, 2017 Confidence wins the girl. Just by being bold, she will be flattered and excited. Never think for a min does a pretty girl feels she is a bag of chips and all that. She could be a shy girl that is sweet, and would like a man to take the lead.
Author Jimx Posted November 13, 2017 Author Posted November 13, 2017 Confidence wins the girl. Just by being bold, she will be flattered and excited. Never think for a min does a pretty girl feels she is a bag of chips and all that. She could be a shy girl that is sweet, and would like a man to take the lead. Yeah, she doesn't look like that kind of a popular girl. I usually see her hanging out with one girl. I heard from my friend that she is really nice and lovely.
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