patym Posted November 9, 2017 Posted November 9, 2017 My now ex boyfriend broke up with me after about 3 years of dating at the beginning of October. He said he broke up with me because we are different people and are on different wavelengths. I do not understand. When we were together we were so happy and always had so much fun together. We really had a strong connection. When we first met I got this gut feeling that he was the one. I am so in love with him. I want to try to work things out. At the beginning of the break up I did the mistake of texting him a bit. Then we agreed to go get coffee. When we met up he was holding my hand and before he left he hugged and kissed me. He also said that he loves me. Then he texted me and told me that he can not get over the thoughts in his head. That we are different. I have not talked to him in 2 weeks. Recently I noticed that he unfriended me from snapchat and facebook. I am not sure what to do to try to get back together. I think we can work things out but he is very stubborn.
d0nnivain Posted November 9, 2017 Posted November 9, 2017 Reconciliation requires communication & a commitment by both parties to work on whatever issue broke them. If he refuses to talk to you, there is nothing you can do. 4
Buriall Posted November 9, 2017 Posted November 9, 2017 Agreed with Don, he sounds like he's made up his mind and doesn't want to talk or work things out. Don't force anything, simply let things unfold itself.. It's gonna be hard but you can't have love without the pain.. 1
heretoh3lp Posted November 9, 2017 Posted November 9, 2017 I agree with the past 2 posts. There is nothing you can do. Sometimes, people make choices for us, and although that stinks, we have to roll with the punches. Wanting to get back together, requires 2 people who want to get back together and it sounds like he doesn't. You can't force him into getting back with you. Let it go. 3 years is a long time, but it is not forever. Put a brave face on and walk with confidence. It will get better.
stillafool Posted November 9, 2017 Posted November 9, 2017 Unfortunately just because we are in love with someone doesn't mean they will love us back. He may have kissed, hugged and said ILY in the moment perhaps trying to create loving feelings toward you but in the end knew that was not what he felt. He did the right thing by letting you go. If he broke up with you it would be up to him to put you two back together. 1
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