MWC_LifeBeginsAt40 Posted August 22, 2005 Posted August 22, 2005 Originally posted by JS17 For MWC_LifeBeginsAt40 IMO, when a man makes you wait for sex it means he has real feelings for you which is not to say that he can't have real feelings for you if you have sex right away. Some men take sex more seriously when they date a woman that they see as a potential mate. They realize that it will complicate and deepen the relationship and they respect the woman enough and want to protect the relationship enough to wait until they are sure they're ready emotionally. sigh....I hope you are right. Sat night I was with the one guy, and again, same as the last five dates, just a hug and kiss at the end of the night. We really need to talk because I'm thinking maybe he is too scared to tell me he's not into me? We have not had any "exclusive talks" and I've never implied that he was the only one I was dating. I went out on a date with another guy, and we kissed. He also said "sex changes things". Things got heated up, but we kept our clothes on (okay, we kept our pants on). I know that he is serious. But I just can't figure out the hug/kiss guy. He did apologize for his mood, because he is having some family issues and I totally understood.....but he was acting the same way before the "family issue" happened.
RecordProducer Posted August 23, 2005 Posted August 23, 2005 Originally posted by Cecelius While I do not think it a morality issue, it is simply an issue of whether something is too easily obtained. Interesting! Well my current relationship started like this: we met online and after two weeks he flew all the way from the US just to meet me. I told him in advance that no sex will happen on the first night and he said that sex doesn't have to happen at all. But we spent the first night together in a hotel and started kissing. We did everything except sex and then he said it was late and we need to wake up at 5 am (we were going on a vacation) so we better go to sleep. But I was already gone wild and told him to go out and buy a condom! How's that?
kitkat826 Posted August 23, 2005 Posted August 23, 2005 Haha , Big Up to that. Nothing wrong with knowing what you want!
Cecelius Posted August 23, 2005 Posted August 23, 2005 Originally posted by RecordProducer Interesting! Well my current relationship started like this: we met online and after two weeks he flew all the way from the US just to meet me. I told him in advance that no sex will happen on the first night and he said that sex doesn't have to happen at all. But we spent the first night together in a hotel and started kissing. We did everything except sex and then he said it was late and we need to wake up at 5 am (we were going on a vacation) so we better go to sleep. But I was already gone wild and told him to go out and buy a condom! How's that? So he liked you, a lot -- no problem there. Everyone's opinion of what is "too easy" varies (besides, most dudes usually conclude that the girl only did it that fast for THEM 'cause they had so many skills... Now when you start hearing about all the other dudes ...)
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