warp123 Posted November 7, 2017 Posted November 7, 2017 Okay you talked 7-8 weeks. Any voice call? Any video call? Any photo of her holding a paper with your name on it, or at least doing something that clearly tells shes the real deal?
Author HansA Posted November 7, 2017 Author Posted November 7, 2017 FSU ladies generally hate keyboard romeos. I know by my own mistakes and reading on some ladies profiles. No endless communications, preferably real meetings... from WOVO to WMVM. Write Many Visit Many... What if everyone is meeting me? Has become a hunt for me that is...?
Author HansA Posted November 7, 2017 Author Posted November 7, 2017 (edited) Okay you talked 7-8 weeks. Any voice call? Any video call? Any photo of her holding a paper with your name on it, or at least doing something that clearly tells shes the real deal? She only has a computer at work and her cell phone at home. But, I see your point with the paper with my name on it. Some ladies do a photo on Natashaclub with their profile ID on it. She has a Facebook profile and a VK profile with her photos. I did contact her on it and she replied. But, yes I will try to get her to send me a photo with my name on it. I see if she wants to talk to me on the phone for 5 minutes too. I have her phone number from her VK profile. I do see her in some [other] places [commercial link redacted] She did share some of those photos on her VK profile and I could go back and find them. Edited November 7, 2017 by a LoveShack.org Moderator Outside commericlal link redacted
CautiouslyOptimistic Posted November 7, 2017 Posted November 7, 2017 (edited) Once you get proof she is who she says she is, I say just go visit her. I am friends with a Slovakian woman who is a lovely, devoted wife and mother. And a great cook. Super hard working. Edited November 7, 2017 by a LoveShack.org Moderator Full quote redacted
warp123 Posted November 7, 2017 Posted November 7, 2017 (edited) She only has a computer at work and her cell phone at home. But, I see your point with the paper with my name on it. Some ladies do a photo on Natashaclub with their profile ID on it. She has a Facebook profile and a VK profile with her photos. I did contact her on it and she replied. <snip> The albums mean nothing until you know that the woman in the photos is the same person that is talking to you. Her cell phone at home? That is ridiculous! How convenient! Demand a videocall, you want to see whos talking. Edited November 7, 2017 by a LoveShack.org Moderator Truncate quote 1
TheWoman Posted November 7, 2017 Posted November 7, 2017 I have come to see Norwegian ladies as to materialistic and selfish. So youre going for a 27 year old eastern euro woman, LOL
Author HansA Posted November 7, 2017 Author Posted November 7, 2017 So youre going for a 27 year old eastern euro woman, LOL Yeah so? I believe you would fall for an hot foreign man if you had the chance too.
coolheadal Posted November 7, 2017 Posted November 7, 2017 I'll try to get her to a video chat first. But, if not I can take the risk for a weekend trip. If she dosn't show I can turn it into a weekend getaway from work. I'll ask her to text me when she leaves her city and comes to Kiev. She wanted to meet me there first. I had one that didn't show up, but it was my home state so it wasn't a lost it was gain. I hope she does show up for you. I had flown last year around this time. At the time I haven't been on play for 8 years. Wow things have changed. Your lucky to have 27 year old interested in you. I just go off video with 26 old she's really into me LOL But she's over 5,000 miles away ouch! What we men do for single women with no kids in tow.. I wish you the best of luck my friend!
carhill Posted November 7, 2017 Posted November 7, 2017 Yup, dating is dating everywhere and women are women everywhere. FSU isn't some nirvana of models aching for visiting males to take care of the rest of their lives. However, though it may have changed some by now, the combination of death, disease and alcoholism, mostly, robbed FSU ladies of millions of potential mates, changing the demographics. The main positive was it was far easier to regularly meet single, available women. Just like in Norway, the brightest and best looking always had/have options and know how to maximize them. Today, even in a relatively small town like Chernihiv, communication should be easy. Back in the day, many women didn't even have phones and work/agency locations were their primary communication portals for phone and internet. Today, even where there's relative poverty, that's all changed. Corresponding with a lady should be fluid and easy. If it's not, to me that's a strong yellow flag to do some comparison shopping. However, if it was easy at the beginning and got more challenging as time wore on, that may play into the keyboard romeo thing, e.g. losing interest. Also, there are other men contacting her plus anything she has going on locally. Expect any woman to be actively accepting dates and interest from other men unless and until she clearly indicates otherwise. I could tell when visiting because we were together every day and the interactions were fluid even with language barriers. It also helps to have boots on ground one can query. I used my interpreter and driver as assets. My driver was especially good at sussing out the ladies being a retired military fighter jock. He knew the ladies well. Approach it like an adventure rather than an escape from negative feelings about local ladies. Eyes open but confident in a positive outcome. It'll work out.
Author HansA Posted November 7, 2017 Author Posted November 7, 2017 But she's over 5,000 miles away ouch! Mine is acording to a map measure site: 1235.69 miles or 1988.66 kilometeres. That from my hometown to Kiev in a straight line. What we men do for single women with no kids in tow.. I wish you the best of luck my friend! Thanks! Yes, women can sure make us men acting like fools. No doubt about that.
Author HansA Posted November 7, 2017 Author Posted November 7, 2017 Approach it like an adventure rather than an escape from negative feelings about local ladies. Eyes open but confident in a positive outcome. It'll work out. Thanks, I'll do that. Take it as an adventure.
warp123 Posted November 7, 2017 Posted November 7, 2017 Man, i dont want to sound annoying, i honestly wish you the best, please be careful, dont get high hopes until you verify if its a fake person or not. Why not just travel where for a few days? Join tinder or similar sites, tell them you are visiting soon and see how many can you date, theres way more real people there than in shady sites
Author HansA Posted November 8, 2017 Author Posted November 8, 2017 No secret that probably she is looking for the ways to leave her country and to find a not poor man. But Ukrainian women will usually be very thankful. She will give you enough love and treatment. Of course' date=' she will ask for some gifts. Just give them and she will give you her love. Sounds terrible. But so it works.[/quote'] I recently watched a norwegian tv-program that showed ukrainian dating stuff. A norwegian man gave his GF a ring worth 44000 NOK (5176 USD) Thats being stupid. He got the ring back luckily. I would just go as high as max. 1000 USD. A serious norwegian traffic ticket is around 600-800 USD. So I can take that hit if it should come to that. But, again I need to feel my gut on that one.
TheWoman Posted November 8, 2017 Posted November 8, 2017 Yeah so? I believe you would fall for an hot foreign man if you had the chance too. Sorry I should have been clearer.... I think you are being naive. If materialism and selfishness are a problem for you, why would you go after a substantially younger woman from an economically deprived country? What do you think her interest in you is? Your maturity, the amazing conversation? You don't even speak the same languages. No.... she is interested in your money/security/a ticket out. Women can be extremely clever about this, and they will play a very long game. In our defense, we have had to for the most part, we still do not have equal economic power & choices and certainly not in countries like that. Id have sex with a hot foreign man (if I were in the mood) but if that is all he had going for him, then it wouldn't be any more than that. But Im betting you wont get sex until you have something tangible to offer her. Also she's 27 - so chances are she wants kids. Youll need to pay for that and if she leaves you, Im pretty sure youll have to keep paying, so I hope you have a good pension! If you spoke the same language I think Id be less cynical but really, if you cannot even properly communicate with each other, this is a transaction, so eyes wide open.
Author HansA Posted November 8, 2017 Author Posted November 8, 2017 Sorry I should have been clearer.... I think you are being naive. If materialism and selfishness are a problem for you, why would you go after a substantially younger woman from an economically deprived country? What do you think her interest in you is? Your maturity, the amazing conversation? You don't even speak the same languages. No.... she is interested in your money/security/a ticket out. Women can be extremely clever about this, and they will play a very long game. In our defense, we have had to for the most part, we still do not have equal economic power & choices and certainly not in countries like that. Id have sex with a hot foreign man (if I were in the mood) but if that is all he had going for him, then it wouldn't be any more than that. But Im betting you wont get sex until you have something tangible to offer her. Also she's 27 - so chances are she wants kids. Youll need to pay for that and if she leaves you, Im pretty sure youll have to keep paying, so I hope you have a good pension! If you spoke the same language I think Id be less cynical but really, if you cannot even properly communicate with each other, this is a transaction, so eyes wide open. Yeah, as would a Norwegian lady too. I know several of my classmates what is dumped or divorced by now. So nationality doesn't matter actually. I could been dumped and divorced like that with a native woman too. Enough of that in Norway. Stats: 2004: 50.4% divorce rate Today: 40.9% divorce rate 2012: 12.9 year long average Yeah...
Author HansA Posted November 8, 2017 Author Posted November 8, 2017 So youre going for a 27 year old eastern euro woman, LOL I want to shock my family and neighbors... 1
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