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As a medical student, I feel very lonely. (venting)


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So as you all know I had a crush which went away as fast as it came.

 

It's the weekend and for once I actually don't have much work to do. This made me realize how lonely I actually am. I haven't been in a relationship for quite some time.

 

I miss the intimacy, the companionship and mostly the cuddling. When I get home, I really don't have someone to talk to. I don't do online dating. I tried it, but it wasn't for me. I would actually like to get to know the person before bumping uglies lol. (Call me old school). Never been one for hooking up or one night stands.

 

The girls I do like, like someone else or are just not interested. The girls that are interested in me, I am not interested in lol. Funny how that works eh?

 

I dunno, in the grand scheme of things I don't really have time for a relationship but damn how do I get over this loneliness

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How much more time in medical school do you have?

 

I don't have any advice since I've never been in med school or dated anyone who was, but I can imagine it's difficult to date with the schedule you have to keep.

 

I know it's trite, but how about getting a kitten? It of course does not replace human companionship, but kittens are pretty awesome and don't require you to be home a lot.

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my cat is my companion, they reflect our moods back to us, they are loyal as dogs, srsly, but less flamboyant, they even play cat jokes on us they care, but do not chat

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The girls I do like, like someone else or are just not interested. The girls that are interested in me, I am not interested in lol. Funny how that works eh?

 

What do you mean. Its always been like that. You always like someone you can't have or just doesn't like you back .. and the ones who like you you dont have reciprocal feelings for.

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Med school? Future MD? Give it time, women love to date doctors. When you're out of med school and the nice salary comes in, attracting women won't be a problem

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How much more time in medical school do you have?

 

I don't have any advice since I've never been in med school or dated anyone who was, but I can imagine it's difficult to date with the schedule you have to keep.

 

I know it's trite, but how about getting a kitten? It of course does not replace human companionship, but kittens are pretty awesome and don't require you to be home a lot.

 

I plan to, once I can provide a good and stable place. I travel every 3 - 4 months for hospital rotations. I don't think it'd be fair for me to take a kitten in

 

What do you mean. Its always been like that. You always like someone you can't have or just doesn't like you back .. and the ones who like you you dont have reciprocal feelings for.

 

Isn't it just terrible? Occasionally I get lucky but for the most part it's always like that. Really enjoying the company of a girl, I spark interest, get friend zoned. Meanwhile I have 2 other girls texting me every night to hang out. Even though I specifically said I'm not looking for a relationship.

 

Honestly has me questioning how handsome I truly am :lmao::lmao:

 

Med school? Future MD? Give it time, women love to date doctors. When you're out of med school and the nice salary comes in, attracting women won't be a problem

 

I don't tell new girls that I meet that I am in med school or will be a doc. I just tell them I am in school and taking classes. I wan't the girl to like me for my personality and looks, not because of my future job :)

 

I got sent home early again. Now I have more time to be lonely. LOL Wth?! I actually want to work so that I don't have to be lonely. Such is life

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I thought all guys ever want is easy sex? Because in that case go back to online dating.

 

Or, date one of the nurses. You understand each other.

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I thought all guys ever want is easy sex? Because in that case go back to online dating.

 

Or, date one of the nurses. You understand each other.

 

Maybe most guys want easy sex. If I did I would've joined tinder or bumble and have a shirtless picture of me in a stethoscope with the caption "Medical Student". But I don't.

 

I can get easy sex. But that's not what I want. With the hyper sexuality of today, sex doesn't carry as much value as it did prior to tinder etc etc.

 

And nurses don't like medical students. We are a pain in their asses :lmao::lmao:

 

We are at the bottom of the totem pole

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Honestly has me questioning how handsome I truly am :lmao::lmao:

 

 

:lmao: Well at least you have your sense of humor about it all :).

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