Vanity1 Posted November 3, 2017 Posted November 3, 2017 Last weekend a mutual friend of my exes drove me home (from my exes house) It was a dramatic night, I was drunk and crying. Long story short the guy who drove me home ended up staying at my house we ended up having sex, and hanging out the next day. He said he always liked me and didn't understand why I put up with my exes ****. He's an amazing guy, my ex always said he was a guy who deserved a good girl. And honestly I should date this guy. He wants to be in a relationship. And he's so sweet willing to drive two hours to see me ( he moved away to get clean, he lived with my ex) Anyways because he's a good guy he deserves to know that I'm not ready for a relationship yet and that I don't want to hang out , I'm not ready to see anyone. I don't want him wasting his time . How do I say this to him properly ?
d0nnivain Posted November 3, 2017 Posted November 3, 2017 You just say last weekend was an aberration. You're a nice guy but now is not a good time for me. Don't waste your time. You really don't need to share every thought in your head with him. Be clear & direct. Avoid giving him false hope. Don't talk about the future. Don't say maybe. Just say No.
Author Vanity1 Posted November 3, 2017 Author Posted November 3, 2017 OP, what's the situation with your pregnancy? I had a friend that I barely spoke to drive me
d0nnivain Posted November 3, 2017 Posted November 3, 2017 hugs glad you resolved your situation best wishes Perhaps cut down on the drinking, if you make bad choices when intoxicated. Also avoid your EX at all costs. I don't even want to know why you were at his house. That was your 1st mistake.
Zahara Posted November 3, 2017 Posted November 3, 2017 I had a friend that I barely spoke to drive me Good for you for taking care of yourself. As for this guy, just be honest. Tell him that you are not in a position to date right now and while you believe he is a great guy, you're just not in the right emotional mindset to give him what he deserves. As for your ex, it's time for you to start accepting that it's no more about this guy but the fact that you are addicted to the drama that it provides you. 1
coolheadal Posted November 3, 2017 Posted November 3, 2017 Last weekend a mutual friend of my exes drove me home (from my exes house) It was a dramatic night, I was drunk and crying. Long story short the guy who drove me home ended up staying at my house we ended up having sex, and hanging out the next day. He said he always liked me and didn't understand why I put up with my exes ****. He's an amazing guy, my ex always said he was a guy who deserved a good girl. And honestly I should date this guy. He wants to be in a relationship. And he's so sweet willing to drive two hours to see me ( he moved away to get clean, he lived with my ex) Anyways because he's a good guy he deserves to know that I'm not ready for a relationship yet and that I don't want to hang out , I'm not ready to see anyone. I don't want him wasting his time . How do I say this to him properly ? You said it right here": I'm not ready for a relationship yet and that I don't want to hang out , I'm not ready to see anyone. I don't want him (replace him with your time (guy name goes here) wasting his time . Text this too him and also leave a voicemail but never talk to him bypass is pickup on the cell by typing 267-759-3425 plus his number. This is for US calls only.
d0nnivain Posted November 3, 2017 Posted November 3, 2017 Text this too him and also leave a voicemail but never talk to him bypass is pickup on the cell by typing 267-759-3425 plus his number. This is for US calls only. What does that do?
Author Vanity1 Posted November 3, 2017 Author Posted November 3, 2017 Done . Well there goes another good guy! Bravo me.
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