Satyrprods Posted November 3, 2017 Posted November 3, 2017 Hello everyone, I'm 22, male, finishing my degree, working as an accuontant. I am a VERY open-minded person in most areas of my life (except for my job). I used a couple of dating sites, apps and what not (I think I am addicted to them in one way or another). I am a solitary, square guy. But sometimes I feel very disconnected with reality, I want to run away, be crazy, wild, do weird things and confuse myself. I messeged this one woman with no profile picture and her profile stated that she is 40 years old. I find older womans company very atrractive. Not because of the mature looks, weird stereotypes or anything else. I just simply feel like most of the time we have something in common. Usually these women are very intelligent, sincer. They do not seem to over complicated things. We started to talk and she said that usually she does not reply to younger guys (cant trust it 100 percent, because never means never). She was very suspicious of my intentions, asked me if I am into older women. Ofcourse I am not. I just replied that I am into woman and that is all that matters. I asked for her photo. She sent me a photo and I lost my breath for a second. She looked perfect. As in picture perfect. Long blonde hair, brilliant eyes, some wrinkles around them that are very very atrractive. She looked very thin, told me that she works out a bit in the mornings. And she had a very pretty smile. She really did take my breath away from me for a second or two. We texted each other a bit more. She told me that she is married, but her man is leaving her for other woman at this moment. They haven't been together for 6 months, she lives without him with her 2 girls. I said that everything is fine and we can simply communicate with 0 intentions. So we did. I offered her to meet, have a cup of coffee. She replied that she would rather go for a walk in a local park. So we agreed. We've met, and she looked even prettier than in her photos. She looked a bit younger than 40, but I suppose she leads quite a healthy lifestyle. We talked about antyhing that came into our minds, her stuff, my stuff, weird practices.... We walked for about 2 hours and she explained the whole situation with her husband. I asked her would she turn to him if he came back. She said if situation was different, as in cheating, maybe. But told me that he just packed up his bags and went to another woman. It's all life I suppose. I was very intrigued by everything. Her looks, her mind, her communication. Her company felt very pleasent. Too much pleasent. Time went by, we said we were both happy with our meeting. Text a week more. Yesterday we had our second meeting (I was a bit late, as I always am). We met in some pizza place, that was near her workplace (I try to meet up with her in locations that are more suitable to her, as I believe she doesn't have that much time on her hands anyway). She had this sweater with pictures of flowers. And she look just as pretty. This pizza place was not as dim as the park (It is winter now, it gets dark quite early). I had a very good look on her face just as she had on mine. We talked about more interesting stuff. Our lives. She asked what were 5 most important situations events in my life that changed me. We both sat and drank coffee. We made a few laughs and I said that I am a bit shy ( I am, most of the time, unless drinking or in a very good mood). She said that she can make me feel very uncomfortable if she wanted to. I asked how and she said that she is going to ask very uncomfortable questions and I'll have to answer them as quickly as possible. She asked me why I am going to dates with her and I replied "Because I like you" She asked me "As what?" I replied "As a woman" She blushed a bit(red face), covered her face and started to giggle. She told me that she was not expecting that I will have the guts to answer her questions like that. She oftens touches me, my arm, kind of pinches me. As I am shy I don't react to it too much. She said me that her parking will run out soon and offered me to go to Gas station and take some more coffee. She offered me a ride home too, but I said it would really by uncomfortable to me. She stopped at some mall's parking place. We talked some more. Conversation was getting very interesting and sort of intimate. Well, not too much, but I felt this way. She told me that we should do a movie night, and I should choose a movie. Maybe in this way we'll get you out of your comfort zone and make you a bit less shy. She said that our meeting has got to have a purpose. She said that even right now, even though there was only 2 dates there is things you can learn from them. She said that I might be experience for her, just like she can be experience for me. It was getting late and she told she got to go home. But she said me that nothing happens for a reason. She told me that she never wrote back anyone younger than 35, rarely meets people she texts with her and that our meeting has got to have purpose. Maybe we just don't know what kind of purpose and what kind of experience we are going to get from it. I hugged her, told her goodbye, and left her car, went home. As I got home, I opened my phone and saw a lovely picture of her, holding her beautiful blonde hair and smiling. I said that is saddens me. She asked me how. I asked her have you ever seen something so beautiful that it makes you miserable? That's how I feel. She asked my why. I told her because that beautiful thing is ungraspable, untouchable, unachievable. She sent me another picture. Without a smile. Intriguing look. I said her that it looks tempting. She said that she's going to get some sleep, wrote me goodnight and a minute later added that she is very happy with the way I answered her question about why I am going to dates with her. I said that I really wanted to say it and I wrote goodnight. I feel good and bad. We've met only 2 times but I am falling for her. Certainly not such a good thing to fall for woman you only saw 2 times. She's pretty busy, I feel like we are going to meet once a week or so. She's older than me. There are some big shoes I have to fill in. I never know what she's really thinking. Why she's still going out with me. All for fun? I hardly see any future but she tempts me very hard. I know that love is mostly temporary and all these precious moments run out at some point. I am afraid if shes into me that it will turn into short-long relationship with her emotions invested and if it doesn't work out she'll get hurt. She got enough of hurt, and I really don't one to be another reason to be bruised about. Any ideas? What do you think? Have any experiences? How did it work out for you? I am lost. Sorry.
rightondude Posted November 3, 2017 Posted November 3, 2017 dude she is getting out of a disaster marriage and is chatting it up with a young buck 1/2 her age and enjoying herself. probably the first amount of attention she's gotten in awhile. You need to bang and just be happy with that; if more comes so be it. HAVE FUN AND ENJOY THE RIDE BROTHER! 1
StephenV Posted November 3, 2017 Posted November 3, 2017 dude she is getting out of a disaster marriage and is chatting it up with a young buck 1/2 her age and enjoying herself. probably the first amount of attention she's gotten in awhile. You need to bang and just be happy with that; if more comes so be it. HAVE FUN AND ENJOY THE RIDE BROTHER! Right on, dude!
Author Satyrprods Posted November 3, 2017 Author Posted November 3, 2017 dude she is getting out of a disaster marriage and is chatting it up with a young buck 1/2 her age and enjoying herself. probably the first amount of attention she's gotten in awhile. You need to bang and just be happy with that; if more comes so be it. HAVE FUN AND ENJOY THE RIDE BROTHER! I understand. But... Her marriage was not a disaster. The ending of it was, tho. It never appeared to me that age has to do something with anything. She said that she does not care about looks all that much. But it was definetly weird for her that I aprroached her. She smiles a lot, always looks at me, keeps eye contact, even while driving she checked me every 10 seconds. I never had a problem sleeping with people I don't respect. You get what you want. You put out, it's not my responsobility to take care after you after we're done. In this case... She feels, looks, talk so honest. She has sincerity and honesty written all over her face. She does not fall into some weird "Cougar" stereotypes. She keeps everything nice and steady, calm. I feel this moral just and somewhat of respect towards her. I am afraid of moving forward, but I really don't want to let it go so easily. I think if don't make any kind of move she'll just flee.
kendahke Posted November 3, 2017 Posted November 3, 2017 You don't have the confidence to go in any direction. That's going to turn her off. You want guarantees and there are none in life. Fish or cut bait.
Author Satyrprods Posted November 3, 2017 Author Posted November 3, 2017 You don't have the confidence to go in any direction. That's going to turn her off. You want guarantees and there are none in life. Fish or cut bait. I just do not want her to get hurt. But I enjoy this thing way more than I should.
BluesPower Posted November 3, 2017 Posted November 3, 2017 Good grief... Listen, I realize that you are really young. I get that. But first thing you need to do I grow a pair of balls, like yesterday. Now, and I really want for you to answer this question, have you ever had sex with a woman??? No, not back seat car sex with a high school girl. I mean heavy duty all night sex with a real woman? Cause if you have not, you need to study up. Young brother, this woman is in to you. You feel safe to her, and she wants to band a young buck so she can get her mojo back from her husband cheating on her. Not to mention that she is in her sexual prime. If you don't lose the shy boy act, you could miss out on some of the best sex you will ever have in your life. Your youth and her experience, you just have no idea how grrreat that can be. Further, if your worrying about somebody getting hurt, it will probably be you so don't get your feeling too deep for a while. So do the movie night at your house, make sure that you have some condoms and lube if necessary, but it probably won't be at her age, start making out, and when it starts to get hot, take her by the hand and lead her into the BR and start undressing her. Don't ask for permission, act like this is how it goes all the time. Unless she puts up a fuss, which I can almost guarantee that she will not. Take charge. And for goodness sake, take it slow. The object here is to let her know with your touch, how desirable and sexy she is. So long foreplay, fingers, oral, and then the main course after you have made her cum a couple of times. You do know what a clit is I hope??? If you do it right, you will have a great sexual relationship with her for however long it lasts. But don't worry about all the crap you are worrying about. You need to lock this down for a while and have some fun.
Author Satyrprods Posted November 3, 2017 Author Posted November 3, 2017 Good grief... Listen, I realize that you are really young. I get that. But first thing you need to do I grow a pair of balls, like yesterday. Now, and I really want for you to answer this question, have you ever had sex with a woman??? No, not back seat car sex with a high school girl. I mean heavy duty all night sex with a real woman? Cause if you have not, you need to study up. Young brother, this woman is in to you. You feel safe to her, and she wants to band a young buck so she can get her mojo back from her husband cheating on her. Not to mention that she is in her sexual prime. If you don't lose the shy boy act, you could miss out on some of the best sex you will ever have in your life. Your youth and her experience, you just have no idea how grrreat that can be. Further, if your worrying about somebody getting hurt, it will probably be you so don't get your feeling too deep for a while. So do the movie night at your house, make sure that you have some condoms and lube if necessary, but it probably won't be at her age, start making out, and when it starts to get hot, take her by the hand and lead her into the BR and start undressing her. Don't ask for permission, act like this is how it goes all the time. Unless she puts up a fuss, which I can almost guarantee that she will not. Take charge. And for goodness sake, take it slow. The object here is to let her know with your touch, how desirable and sexy she is. So long foreplay, fingers, oral, and then the main course after you have made her cum a couple of times. You do know what a clit is I hope??? If you do it right, you will have a great sexual relationship with her for however long it lasts. But don't worry about all the crap you are worrying about. You need to lock this down for a while and have some fun. I am sexually active and for my age I feel well in place with the things I've done and experienced. I don't worry about sex itself too much. I always had a good quality time with other women or girls, and I would like to think that they did too. I'm very open minded in sex. It's not the intercourse itself that would worry me. The way she looks at me. I am probably blinded at this moment and need to get my thoughts straight. We'll go to another date prolly some time soon. If it goes well enough, I'll go for it. Nothing much to lose, I guess. Definetly not gonna go for these things you told me, but I see them coming. One step at a time sounds best for me. Thanks for advice, much appreciated!
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