Author edgygirl Posted November 3, 2017 Author Posted November 3, 2017 Oh you being ENFP makes sense... I've always identified with your answers! Quite honestly, I use it to filter people... when they ask me "How's your day" stuff, I rule them out. I can be friends with Sensors (S types), but it doesn't work romantically. Guy is early 50s and never married... so maybe that's the reason... not good at communicating. He is a handsome doctor though, it would be weird if he lacked confidence but who knows. I wish loveshack had a Myers Briggs forum! It explains everything about relationships IMHO! This thread is interesting. I'm an ENFP too, according to Myers Briggs and I hate hate the "How's your day" type questions. This guy sounds like he's lacking in confidence. He keeps half asking so as to avoid rejection. Whether or not that's an issue for OP I dunno.
coolheadal Posted November 3, 2017 Posted November 3, 2017 What does it mean when a man asks you that? I met someone I liked online a few days ago and he just asked me that. Does it mean he wants to ask me out and that's fine? Does it mean he's cryptically BSing me? Does it mean he's a lazy kind of guy who can't treat me like a lady? Not sure how to respond. I think by age 50 a professional man should know how to express himself non-cryptically, but maybe I am over reacting or not understanding a common English expression that I should not be offended by? Save It's a come-on-line to see what your doing this weekend? His intention is to ask you out base on your response. You no I do not have any plans and I have no bf or husband, if your asking me out I can go!
TheFinalWord Posted November 3, 2017 Posted November 3, 2017 I think he's just making conversation. Yep! Most guys don't have ulterior motives in asking small-talk type questions. We aren't that deep ladies
basil67 Posted November 3, 2017 Posted November 3, 2017 Wondering if it's cultural. Where I live, it's perfectly normal phrasing to find out if you've got space for a date on the weekend. 1
hercules22 Posted November 3, 2017 Posted November 3, 2017 i guess it a conversation starter when they dont know what to say but girls hate that as thats what many guys say to them so it looks like they lack confidence. he is probably trying to see what your doing cause he wants to know if you are available before asking you out , i myself would rather just ask the girl out over the weekend then she can tell me what shes up to that way or you find out if she rejects you lol
basil67 Posted November 3, 2017 Posted November 3, 2017 If you want a date then simply ask to take someone out! Even if they have plans they will change them if they are interested - or they will offer another day to get together. Just ask - no games. Who are you to try and change my culture? It works perfectly well here.
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