Highndry Posted November 13, 2017 Posted November 13, 2017 You know what was his reaction like? "wtf are you talking about, I've been good and loyal all this time, why do you think I'm not loyal etc..." He told me that's his business phone and he can't remember blocking me on whatsapp and maybe he did that "by accident"... yeah right. Btw, I know a couple (they're married) which her husband is constantly cheating on her, he was cheating before marriage, and he's cheating now, even though they just had a baby. She trusts him, and she gives him "his space" and being cheated on. All those years and she has NO IDEA I don't wanna have the husband like hers. This is usually the case when the husband makes bank and has power and status. The wife thinks she'll never do better and just accepts any behavior. It's pathetic.
Author littlesquirrel Posted November 24, 2017 Author Posted November 24, 2017 How to get rid of jealousy and trust issues? Counseling?
kendahke Posted November 25, 2017 Posted November 25, 2017 How to get rid of jealousy and trust issues? Counseling? Yes. You're going to need to go through a bit of this so that when you are emotionally ready to enter into something with someone new, you're not dragging unresolved problems from this relationship into that, making the new man own and sort your ex's stuff. Jealousy issues come from the powerless feeling that who/what you are is not enough, but thinking everyone else is. That's usually not the case, but if you insist on drilling down into a jealous mindset, it will end up running off emotionally healthy men because they're not going to put up with it. So invest in yourself for the foreseeable future to get your emotions and mind in a healthier place. This guy will keep you in the mire the longer you deal with him. He already insults your intelligence--you deserve way better than that.
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