true26 Posted August 18, 2005 Posted August 18, 2005 I have been working on NC with my MM. He e-mailed me today saying that he would explode if he didn't get some physical contact soon. My response. "Uh oh. Better make nice with wifey". I know it's not no contact, but it's better than me dropping whatever I am doing to jump at the chance to be with him.
Barby Posted August 18, 2005 Posted August 18, 2005 Sorry to see that no-one responded to your post. Yes you're right it's makes you a better/stronger person that you didn't fall at his feet and jump at the chance to be with him. I don't know your situation/story but if you're attempting NC obviously you're attempting to end it and it sounds like you're making progress and steps in the right direction by NOT going to sleep with him when he wanted you to. Congrads and I hope you stay strong!
Marie1973 Posted August 18, 2005 Posted August 18, 2005 Wow that is great Keep up the good work. I wish I was a bit stronger!! But I'm working on it
newbby Posted August 18, 2005 Posted August 18, 2005 i too congratulate you, however i also want to give you a little warning. i did this same kind of thing for about 4 months, and he kept trying and trying, and it made me feel good, that he desired me so much but i was so strong. eventually at a weak moment, i melted. then everything went back to normal. just saying, he wont give up easily, and warning you that unless you now cut contact with him, it will eventually become hard to resist. this of course depends on your feelings for him, although, i can also say that at that time i could have sworn i could take or leave him.
Owl Posted August 18, 2005 Posted August 18, 2005 That is an AWESOME answer!! If he says anything back, simply reply with "Funny, I've not missed you at all!"
starreyes Posted August 19, 2005 Posted August 19, 2005 Originally posted by true26 I have been working on NC with my MM. He e-mailed me today saying that he would explode if he didn't get some physical contact soon. My response. "Uh oh. Better make nice with wifey". I know it's not no contact, but it's better than me dropping whatever I am doing to jump at the chance to be with him. True, Absolutely great great answer! You think like I do! Sometimes this kind of contact is better than NC.....lol. Plus, it put a smile on your face.
Author true26 Posted August 19, 2005 Author Posted August 19, 2005 He was ticked but that is okay. I didn't even acknowledge his anger. Lord knows he has ignored mine on several occasions. Newbby-You are right. I will have to try to remember that for the future.
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