MIAho Posted October 29, 2017 Posted October 29, 2017 About two months ago, the school that I work at hired a new and younger female teacher that works alongside me and whom I share a room with. Since then, we’ve become good friends and better partners. From a work standpoint, we're always sharing ideas and giving each other advice and occasionally venting to each other about problems that we have at work. Most of the time, we end up staying later than most of the other teachers at our school. Recently, I’ve began to notice some not so subtle signs that my new co-worker might have a crush on me. Sometimes she'll leave the room for a few minutes and come back smelling of perfume. Even though she's friendly with other teachers at our school, she said that I'm one of the few who she considers to be a friend and defends me when other teachers say anything remotely negative about me. She's more open around me than any other co-worker and said that she really feels comfortable around me. She also admitted that she gets a little lonely whenever I leave a little earlier than her. Lately, we've began hanging out and doing our work together outside of school, sometimes for hours. I think she might be attracted to me and I'm also attracted to her but despite that, she has a boyfriend and I have a girlfriend. In fact, when she found out about my new girlfriend, she seemed a little disappointed. I'm not about to breakup with my current girlfriend to pursue her, since that wouldn't lead to anything and I don't want to do anything that jeopardize my job or ruin what we already have. I think the chemistry and attraction is why we work well together. Do you think she has a crush on me? How would you handle it?
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