ExposedBrick Posted October 29, 2017 Posted October 29, 2017 I met a really interesting woman that is a friend of a friend. We have been crossing paths for a few weeks. At times when we have had conversations between us, she has been pretty flirtatious. I overheard her speaking with another person and she briefly mentioned “a guy she is dating” but I don’t know if they are an exclusive item or if they just met. Ive learned quite a bit about her but she never mentioned the guy in speaking with me. I’ve spoke with her a number of times. Each time I’ve spoke with her I find myself becoming more interested. In fact, I find myself thinking about her in my down time frequently. I don’t want to embarrass myself since we have a mutual friend but I really want to express my interest in her. My goal is: 1. Find out her status 2. Express my interest in a way that would not make her feel awkward in the future, more complimentary in nature. Any tips? Should I just be direct and ask her is she is seeing anyone seriously? Or just do some more casual reconnoissance?
d0nnivain Posted October 29, 2017 Posted October 29, 2017 Have you done a simple Google search on him? Can you find a way to work the idea of a BF into the conversation as in How come your guy doesn't come to these events with you?
kendahke Posted October 29, 2017 Posted October 29, 2017 I’ve spoke with her a number of times. I really want to express my interest in her. My goal is: 1. Find out her status 2. Express my interest in a way that would not make her feel awkward in the future, more complimentary in nature. Any tips? Should I just be direct and ask her is she is seeing anyone seriously? Or just do some more casual reconnoissance? Well if you want to know the answer from her, you're going to have to stop playing insecure games and come out and ask her. On these "number of times" you've spoken, you haven't thought to ask her if she's seeing anyone? Once you ask her that, if she says "yes", just say "too bad" and if she asks why you said that, you say "I'd like to take you out, but I'm going to respect your boyfriend". Put that ball in her court.
smackie9 Posted October 29, 2017 Posted October 29, 2017 Just ask her out. Who cares if she's "dating" someone. Her options are not closed unless she is engaged or married. Stop being so beta, step up or step out.
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