Author ww Posted August 18, 2005 Author Posted August 18, 2005 I do He said I must have been with very childish and insecure man. IMO latest opinion : a real redneck.( how could I possibly like someone like that ? )
newbby Posted August 18, 2005 Posted August 18, 2005 you did, but now you dont, dont worry about it. sounds like you have good husband
aklost101 Posted August 19, 2005 Posted August 19, 2005 why would you wish to be civil to him? b/c it's too much energy to stay mad. one wastes so much time being mad, that they still have power over you b/c you're still giving them your time, thoughts and energy even if it is negative (and not to their face)... better to just clear the air and go away on a neutral note than to spend the next however many years angry.
newbby Posted August 19, 2005 Posted August 19, 2005 its nothing to do with being mad. i meant to be polite by all means but not to go out of her way to be civil to him when it is unneccessary.
Author ww Posted August 19, 2005 Author Posted August 19, 2005 HE BEHAVES LIKE A 15 YEARS OLD KID:lmao: :lmao:
Merin Posted August 19, 2005 Posted August 19, 2005 All I can is.. FREAKIN TECHNOLOGY! Maybe snail mail and by horse was the way to go uh? So when you're feeling extra, super pissed off by the time you got done writing what a **** the other person is, put it in an envelope, addressed it, licked it... searched around for postage and FINALLY got it the delievery dude you couldn't remember anymore why you were so pissed Screw it... I would've given up after looking around for the envelope and gone back to bed... Don't sweat it, he's a ****er
RecordProducer Posted August 20, 2005 Posted August 20, 2005 Why would you think about your ex lovers when you're happily married now? Just remove any thought about him from your head. You don't need him. Don't talk to him unless you meet him in the street and have to say 'hello.' What's the point of this whole thread? You have a loving husband. men don't make noise when they are jealous, but often they are silently very hurt. We find that out when it's too late. Don't do this to your husband and yourself. Don't even mention him. How would you feel if the situation was reverse?
smile95 Posted August 20, 2005 Posted August 20, 2005 sounds like he wants you to think that he is texting someone else and you may have gotten it by mistake???
whichwayisup Posted August 20, 2005 Posted August 20, 2005 Originally posted by aklost101 b/c it's too much energy to stay mad. one wastes so much time being mad, that they still have power over you b/c you're still giving them your time, thoughts and energy even if it is negative (and not to their face)... better to just clear the air and go away on a neutral note than to spend the next however many years angry. Exactly!!! Care less, detach even more (don't be concerned about anything pertaining to him) and then it won't matter what he does/doesn't do.
newbby Posted August 20, 2005 Posted August 20, 2005 You have a loving husband. men don't make noise when they are jealous, but often they are silently very hurt. We find that out when it's too late. Don't do this to your husband and yourself. Don't even mention him. How would you feel if the situation was reverse? i agree. sometimes women dont make noise either, dont you realise how jealous we all are of you with your lovely husband?!
mopar crazy Posted August 23, 2005 Posted August 23, 2005 Originally posted by RecordProducer Why would you think about your ex lovers when you're happily married now? Just remove any thought about him from your head. You don't need him. Don't talk to him unless you meet him in the street and have to say 'hello.' What's the point of this whole thread? You have a loving husband. men don't make noise when they are jealous, but often they are silently very hurt. We find that out when it's too late. Don't do this to your husband and yourself. Don't even mention him. How would you feel if the situation was reverse? ' I agree w/ RP. Block him so he can't contact you anymore. Seems to me that he was fishing to see what you would do, ignore his message, or answer it. The best thing is to ignore it and block him from ever contacting you again. Who cares what he is feeling? You are happily M now. Don't worry about what he thinks or wants. He is your past, keep him there. GL
brubaker2004 Posted August 23, 2005 Posted August 23, 2005 he just wanted to be back in your thoughts again, and he succeeded. but you are strong and have moved on so ignore him.
sami Posted August 23, 2005 Posted August 23, 2005 I agree with both RP and mopar crazy. Good advice.
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