ww Posted August 17, 2005 Posted August 17, 2005 Ladies you won`t believe this one. After a long time of NC from his part mostly. In the middle of the night he sends an sms : HAVE U GOT AN SMS THAT WAS NOT MEANT FOR U PERHAPS ? Is he for real??????????????????????????????????? Your insights are more than welcome
sami Posted August 17, 2005 Posted August 17, 2005 He's checking what you were doing at that very moment.
Author ww Posted August 17, 2005 Author Posted August 17, 2005 I think he should call if he wants to know anything. I think he really thought he sent me an sms by mistake
whichwayisup Posted August 17, 2005 Posted August 17, 2005 Completely ignore it. DO not reply to it. If he wants to contact you directly he will. Who knows if he sent something and thought maybe he sent it to you by accident or if he's testing the waters to see how safe things are. Don't let this throw you! Keep busy and try to forget him and his comment.
Author ww Posted August 17, 2005 Author Posted August 17, 2005 HE SENT ANOTHER ONE!!!!!!!!!!!! APOLOGIES FOR DISTURBING!!!!!!!!! ?????????????????????
newbby Posted August 17, 2005 Posted August 17, 2005 ? perhaps he is trying to re-establish contact. maybe he is trying to let you know he is having another a to see if you get jealous. maybe he is thinking that now that you are both married he is in for a chance to continue the a on a more equal footing. maybe he is having another a and is genuinely worried that he sent you a text meant for her. i dont know ww, i really dont. one things for sure though, he isnt happily married.
Author ww Posted August 17, 2005 Author Posted August 17, 2005 perhaps he is trying to re-establish contact. NO I REALLY DON`T THINK SO maybe he is trying to let you know he is having another a to see if you get jealous.NO. HE IS NOT THAT TYPE maybe he is thinking that now that you are both married he is in for a chance to continue the a on a more equal footing.THIS IS WAY TO WEIRD EVEN FOR ME maybe he is having another a and is genuinely worried that he sent you a text meant for her.MOST LIKELY i dont know ww, i really dont. one things for sure though, he isnt happily married.I REALLY AM SORRY FOR HIM IF THIS IS THE CASE
Author ww Posted August 17, 2005 Author Posted August 17, 2005 Originally posted by sami Eventually he will do it. No that will never happen. You can be sure about that
Author ww Posted August 17, 2005 Author Posted August 17, 2005 ok I am me again. I think he really thought he mistaked a nr.
Author ww Posted August 17, 2005 Author Posted August 17, 2005 I`ll go and try to sleep. HUH, he still has strong impact on me I guess. grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr
Markyboy Posted August 17, 2005 Posted August 17, 2005 that must have irritated you, but im sure he was trying to make you jealous........has he succeeded?
Author ww Posted August 17, 2005 Author Posted August 17, 2005 No I am not really jealous.Why should I be jealous of someone who does not care for me and went away long time ago? a bit sad and alot irritated. I want to calm down before I go to bed. It brings out feelings from me that i buried long time ago I decided not to feel anything but last few days I was feeling a huge anger towards him. And now he sends an sms ...irritating huh
Markyboy Posted August 17, 2005 Posted August 17, 2005 that sucks........he wanted to get a reaction out of you.....so it was a bit of mind game playing on his part.......just go back to how you were feeling before.....if u dont mail back it will be interesting to see if he sends you more
Author ww Posted August 18, 2005 Author Posted August 18, 2005 and so he went quiet again. oh well...
whichwayisup Posted August 18, 2005 Posted August 18, 2005 Originally posted by ww I`ll go and try to sleep. HUH, he still has strong impact on me I guess. grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr Whatever you do, don't ever let him know that. It will only feed his ego and he'll know he has that power over you.
Author ww Posted August 18, 2005 Author Posted August 18, 2005 Nah! I think it was just a temporary thought anyway. But if that sms serves as some kind of help for two of us starting behave like two adult people , than it`s ok. One of my dear friends told me: We`ll see. Time is a great teller. To make clear. I don`t want him back in anyway not under any condition but what I hope is we start treating each other in a civil way. I am married now and I intend to stay married for the rest of my life ( to this person ). As for him, I wish we could seat down and clear things out, once and for all. I kinda feel strong enough now for that. Maybe he isn`t ready? When the time is right I am sure we will be both able to do that step. What do you think?
newbby Posted August 18, 2005 Posted August 18, 2005 i think you still have some sort of hangover from the a, and probably that is best dealt with away from him than through him. why would you wish to be civil to him? he treated you really badly didnt he? it really depends on what you are honestly wishing to achieve with this.
Author ww Posted August 18, 2005 Author Posted August 18, 2005 you know what? you are RIGHT. why am I wanting to talk to him after all???? maybe it is just the thought that was giving me a strength not to fall apart all those months of pain? yeah, right. i don`t need to talk to him about past feelings. Anyway is good thing to stay civil with other people.
newbby Posted August 18, 2005 Posted August 18, 2005 be civil by all means, but only when you have to, that is, when you bump into him accidently etc. going out of your way to "be civil" is just not necessary, if he asks you to talk to him about it, then cross that bridge, but unless it is absolutely neccessary that you are friends i.e that you mix in the same circles etc, or if you think he is actually a really nice guy and you are sorry for anything you said to him that may have hurt him, then there is just no need.
Author ww Posted August 18, 2005 Author Posted August 18, 2005 i really don`t know. but here is the best thing i can do. NOT TO THINK ABOUT IT. let`s see what life brings
joodee Posted August 18, 2005 Posted August 18, 2005 Do you talk to your husband about this stuff? Is he helpful in these matters? I was wondering about that.
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