Dawg101 Posted August 17, 2005 Posted August 17, 2005 Ok, Im 15 and have just met the most wonderful girl I have ever met. But... she lives in the city next to me and is one year younger than me and she is not ready for a boy friend. About the city thing I dot really care about that, because next year I'll be able to drive. Just the thing about her not being ready stumps me though. I told her I understand and etc. The thing is what do I do? Wait until she's ready or move on, and forget about her. Keep in mind that I really like her if not LOVE her. Btw, Im sorry if I posted this in the wrong section, Im new here.
animo Posted August 17, 2005 Posted August 17, 2005 Hmmm well... I tend not to get into 'puppy love' type of things but well... you probably aren't viewing that in the same light as me Thing is... This sort of thing happens. It happened to you now and it will happen again in the future. You are extreemly young to be seriously worried about this sort of thing. I think you should take it easy, just enjoy her company and see what happens. Maybe she will warm upto you, maybe she wont! Either way you shouldn't be to serious about this. Ok you really like her, ok maybe you're in love with her but hey, relax it's not that big a deal, these sort of things happen all the time. And furthermore... what CAN you do? She already told you 'im not ready for a boyfriend', you have to respect that! You can't force anything onto her, you can't say some magic words and wave a want to make her change her mind. She just has to go at her own pace basically. All you can really do is stick around and wait i guess or move on with your life basically. It's ok if you want to hang around and be her friend for now...just back off a bit there cassanova
Author Dawg101 Posted August 17, 2005 Author Posted August 17, 2005 I would never force her to be a gf. I did invite her to a movie just friends nothing serious, and she said yes. I'll just hang with her and if she doesnt show any sign I'll move on then. Thanks.
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