minou23 Posted October 25, 2017 Posted October 25, 2017 (edited) How would you feel about dating someone your friend dated or hooked up with? What if they went on only one date with them? What if that friend is like more than an acquaintance but not someone you see regularly or often? Edited October 25, 2017 by minou23 Accidentally pressed share before finished
Sara1989 Posted October 25, 2017 Posted October 25, 2017 How would you feel about dating someone your friend dated or hooked up with? What if they went on only one date with them? What if that friend is like more than an acquaintance but not someone you see regularly or often? If you value the friendship I would be upfront and ask her if it was ok. If they only went on one date I don't see the big deal? my friend is single like me and I point out guys I been on dates with that I think she be more suited with! 1
smackie9 Posted October 25, 2017 Posted October 25, 2017 You don't need to ask permission to date anyone IMO. I've had friends, date or had slept with my exes. It never bothered me because I didn't care about the exes, I had moved on. I thought, they can have at them....maybe they will see the disappointment I had lol. 1
d0nnivain Posted October 25, 2017 Posted October 25, 2017 Super close BFF -- it would be odd. More so because I probably would know a lot of details about that relationship. Acquaintance no permission required. I may give the person a heads up if things got serious with the SO. A ONS / hook up a friend had would depend on how much she liked him & how it came to pass that they didn't work out. Again, I may already have TMI. Some how in my brain throughout my life, once a friend was with a guy he lost all attractiveness for me. [single exception -- in college I was on a 2nd date with some guy & my friend was out with a buddy / stand in because her date stood her up; with the guys' permission & consent we switched dates. I ended up dating her buddy for a few months -- lol]
Author minou23 Posted October 25, 2017 Author Posted October 25, 2017 Super close BFF -- it would be odd. More so because I probably would know a lot of details about that relationship. Acquaintance no permission required. I may give the person a heads up if things got serious with the SO. A ONS / hook up a friend had would depend on how much she liked him & how it came to pass that they didn't work out. Again, I may already have TMI. Some how in my brain throughout my life, once a friend was with a guy he lost all attractiveness for me. [single exception -- in college I was on a 2nd date with some guy & my friend was out with a buddy / stand in because her date stood her up; with the guys' permission & consent we switched dates. I ended up dating her buddy for a few months -- lol] That’s a funny story! It was a fake date though so you weren’t crossing any boundaries! Also, I agree with the losing attractiveness part. If I know my friend was intimate with someone it would gross me out. And my exes are so weird I don’t see any of my friends wanting to date them haha.
Miss Spider Posted October 25, 2017 Posted October 25, 2017 (edited) Just no..There are a zillion guys in this world( okay maybe not that many) but still there are enough people to wear no one should have to double dip. On Tinder I matched an aquaintance's ex bf who I had met come into contact with before when we were all out together. We talked for a bit and I realized who it was and unmatched Edited October 25, 2017 by Cookiesandough
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