Relationship maintenance??

[Purepony]

I have been dating a girl for almost 7 years but the relationship is on flat line so I decided to call things off but looking back I really think I need some pointers.

 

Now flash forward to me asking a new girl out is there like a certain order of things I can do or should do ?

 

Maybe I’m not asking right but you know how there are certain crucial steps to things in life like watering a plant or maintenance on a car.

 

What kind of maintenance does a relationship need to survive because I seem to flat line after a while

 

Thanks

[preraph]

Be fun. Keep doing fun things. Be interesting. Read up on things and have something to talk about. You just need to work on staying interesting and multifaceted. Good luck.

[Purepony]

It’s not that easy though

 

It’s impossible to have to put a dog and pony show everyday

[taiko]

7 years? There needs to be an end game. The potential of a familial commitment before reproductive biology locks out the chance. And societal preferences keeps the other a potential partner and not seen as too old.