why are my standards so low?

[coolheadal]

as far as I am aware I have only mentioned him on the one forum, not forums in the plural. It's not about 'putting him down' either. It's about me trying to figure out why I'm allowing stuff like this.

 

Are you him?

 

Because it's what you need to be with it's the way we are seeded to believe. Each one of us has that certain someone out there that we're suppose to be with. Now mine you he's the the best but you tolerate him for a reason. You can't figure out why but he's the guy for you. Look at this from looking in the window. What you see? You have already describe him to us in your first post. I have to be honest the woman I seeing well until she gets back her is like him in a way. Now why would I be with such a woman. I feel comfortable with her. I can sleep with her and not to feel otherwise. I can trust her. Still why would I be with her. Because it's suppose to be that way. Your suppose to be with him. Give it a few months see what happens. Bed bugs he said, interesting. What type of mattress do you sleep on? Spring, Water, Air, Foam?

[RecentChange]

Because it's what you need to be with it's the way we are seeded to believe. Each one of us has that certain someone out there that we're suppose to be with.

 

Now why would I be with such a woman. I feel comfortable with her. I can sleep with her and not to feel otherwise. I can trust her. Still why would I be with her. Because it's suppose to be that way. Your suppose to be with him. Give it a few months see what happens. Bed bugs he said, interesting. What type of mattress do you sleep on? Spring, Water, Air, Foam?

 

Huh? She NEEDS to be with a guy who doesn't treat her well, who she is embarrassed of, who she doesn't respect?

 

What?

 

Thats like saying everyone should stay in toxic relationships, or not have standards for themselves.

 

Where did she say that he is a good partner and makes her a better person? Those are things a partner should be.

 

Not a deadbeat she doesn't respect, and now does not respect herself for being with him.

[Highndry]

WOW. I guess there's hope for every man...

[Romantic_Antics]

is he hot though

 

Welp, there goes my ass. I just laughed it clean off, thank you very much.

[Larryville]

Ditto what G asked; but the bottom line is we accept what we think we deserve. He sounds like the most screwed up human on the planet yet you took time out of your day to post this and ignore the obvious.

Has nothing to do with dude is all about you and your past.

[William]

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