Please i need a point of view from both sides male and females

[Ohio_isforLovers]

If any of u ppl remember me from my other post...I was going threw a tough time with my ex

goign out with some other guy..But at the end..She ended up breaking up with him because

she still had feelings for me..So in a way i had a second chance...Well moving on...

 

Well i went out with my ex again for like a month....But there was a problem with our relationship..

You see were both 16..Yea were young...

But anyways she works with her mom to some day care every weekday..plus where she works its a

elementry skool where her best friend lives closed by...So she stays at her house after shes done at work..

but the problem is tat she has no way for her to c me..(she lives right in front of me) Her mom comes bak from work at 9 sumtin because she does sumtin else after day kare or sumtin..So she has no ride bak...

So the problem was tat we never got c eatch other because of her work..PLus she part of her skool pom squad...So

after work she would have to go to pom practice..Which would even more suck for me and her...So she ended up kalling me..Saying tat iw ant to break up ...I was like uhh why..? She like replied ebcause for this month we only got c eatch other 5 times this whole month...Im like yea i know..Shes like i dont think this whole thing is working out and tat im not ready for a bf right now because of all this stuff tat going on..like work and pom practice..Im just like

So yea i guess she ended the relationship because of her gay work and poms...Like she did have a reason for the break up and it is pracitcvally her fault...but i danno.I still want to go out with her...I love this girl alot..

 

**Ive alrdy said this beofre but id dint get much help , oh yea im updating on wats going on rigte now**

 

I recently caught her with her ex....Im like all shocked and confused..She told me she wouldnt talk to him or eb freinds with him because of wat he did...but she told me that the reason shes freinds with him again is because her mom told her tat she should be freinds with him again because the sam thign happend to her and she told me that it wasnt her mom who made the desisoin for her...MI just like tats soo bogus..So i ask her do u still like him and she answers me yea as a freind...Well the next day i find out ttat she went to a hukah bar with him and her two best freinds and im thinking to myself wtf! So i talk to her on aim and she tells guess wat i tried hukah..im like thats bad for u..She like snpas at me saying well im a teen and most teens experiment with weed and getting drunk and i want to do tat..and im like well u shouldnt theres no point..U dont get any enjoiment from it..She replies by saying tat i usde to smoke weed and drink..but i told her tat i changed...Oh and i told her tat i cared about her...She like response by saying well i know how to make good descions from bad descions..Then i snap back by saying well u made a bad descion by going out with ur ex in the first place..Then she repsonds by saying ur soo rude! Im like okay,its true..Then she snaps by saing well wat if was a good desions to break up with you..Im like wat u meen by tat..Then shes like i cant think right now im drunk...

Well i tryed calling her after she signed off but she didnt pick up her phone..i guess because she wanted to ignore me..Well after tat day she ends up iming me again saying hey and im like wtf was wrong with you yesterday..Then she ignores me and ends up signing off...I like kall her 5 times but she never picks up..Soo now i know shes ignoring me...well today i saw my friends site and she had a pics of tat dayw hen they allw ent to the hukah bar..And there was one pic where there was her ex name and a heart sign with her name...IM just thinking to myslef.Is she going out with him again?...Did she break up with me and made excuses saying im busy with work even tough she stopped working and knows shes diong pom practice?...She also told me shes not ready for a bf..I just dont know!

 

Please i need a point of view from both sides male and females view on this...Thnx

[LittleMiss]

You're young and so is she. I know you think you love this girl, but I would just move on. Try and go out wit other girls that will give you the attention that you are asking for. This girl is playing games and having a fine time doing it. She doesn't want to commit to you and there is nothing you can do about that. Like I said you two are both young. Neither of you should be committed to someone at this age. Just go out and have fun. Date many girls and see what's out there. You will be glad you did when you get older trust me.

 

When I was 15 I entered into a long term relationship that ended bad. We dated from Junior high and all through high school. I missed out on a lot of things. I didn't get to "play the field". Now, I think back and realize that it was a mistake to be in such a serious relationship at such a young age.

[Ohio_isforLovers]

Welllll..I guess ur right