ZA Dater Posted October 17, 2017 Posted October 17, 2017 I'll say this when things go well its easy to see how special a good date can be. What is well, for me its when you are comfortable enough with the other person to laugh, smile and just talk freely. I suppose it helps if you have some sort of connection. I did things differently this time, not actually pushing the dating aspect that much but enjoying spending time with this person, the odd text every so often but not bombarding her with texts. Actually I think this method is more effective in a way, she can reply when she wants and she always does. Perhaps the key is to let someone know you are thinking about them but saying a few words and leaving it there. Yes, I haven't changed my old ways and so far the meets ups have been fairly extravagant lunches with groups of people we both know so it eases the pressure a bit. But when it comes down to it, she looks at me, I look at her and there is something there, she takes an interest in me and that's very nice. Way forward, I am going to just take it slow and easy like this, if it works out I will be glad but in the meantime I am just going to enjoy spending time with her. 4
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