NightRogue Posted October 17, 2017 Posted October 17, 2017 This is related to a post I made earlier. I do have these friends in my uni but I think maybe why we don't hang out as often is because perhaps I am not showing interest in the friendship. Part of me is kind of annoying them if I chat everyday, and I am not the most social guy, so I want to change that. How can I show more investment/interest in maintaining a friendship?
d0nnivain Posted October 17, 2017 Posted October 17, 2017 Put down the devices & show up. Go hang out in their room or apartment. Play hackey sack or Frisbee with them. Just chill. Study. You invest in a friendship by physically being there.
Author NightRogue Posted October 17, 2017 Author Posted October 17, 2017 Put down the devices & show up. Go hang out in their room or apartment. Play hackey sack or Frisbee with them. Just chill. Study. You invest in a friendship by physically being there. Let me elaborate. I am in college and living off campus and not near these friends, so I usually connect with them online(college is huge, remember.) So how can I show more interest or investment with this in mind?
d0nnivain Posted October 17, 2017 Posted October 17, 2017 Send a message inviting them over or suggesting you do something together. I went to the 3rd largest university in the world way before cell phones & e-mail. We kept in touch by spending time together. Say something like hey I'm ordering pizza -- wanna come over? Bring beer.
Rose.1977 Posted October 17, 2017 Posted October 17, 2017 You invest in a friendship by physically being there.
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