MrPlop Posted October 12, 2017 Posted October 12, 2017 (edited) I haven't posted here in a long time. Thought that I could share this amusing story with you guys. My ex took off with one of the guys at her job a quite a while ago, well over a year ago. Last I heard of her recently (through a mutual friend) she got knocked up and they seemed to have issues as of recent, long story short, they moved out of state with her family to raise the baby (I guess it's all fun & games 'til you have to plan for diapers). Towards the last week of the end of the relationship I received a weird text on social media which I never got to read in time (mind she deleted this text). It was basically her new boyfriend's ex telling me he's been cheating on her with my girlfriend (now ex), I guess upon reading this text my ex decided the lie would soon be out and ended things with me. Fast-forward to the present time this guy's ex and I had been in contact for the past 4 months and had gone in 3 dates so far. She has kinda confronted her feelings towards me. Now it's a bit twisted I know, it's gone down to a point I could take it further with her, but with all honesty I'm not really attracted to her, personality & looks wise, one of the reasons her being kinda cheap (hasn't even offered to pay a dime by the third date). Now my friends tell me I should get intimate with her to get back at this guy, but really it's just not worth it, two wrongs don't make one right. I do see perhaps a friendship with her. Hope you enjoyed it a bit when the improbable and unlikely meet. Edited October 12, 2017 by MrPlop
Cobra_X Posted October 13, 2017 Posted October 13, 2017 with all honesty I'm not really attracted to her, personality & looks wise, one of the reasons her being kinda cheap (hasn't even offered to pay a dime by the third date). Now my friends tell me I should get intimate with her to get back at this guy, How exactly would sleeping with the girl he dumped in favor of your xGF get back at him? To my opinion all you would be doing is hurting the feelings of a nice woman that has already been played and hurt once before. I think you have a choice. Be better than the OM, or be the same kind of mean person. 3
LovelyRose Posted October 13, 2017 Posted October 13, 2017 I haven't posted here in a long time. Thought that I could share this amusing story with you guys. My ex took off with one of the guys at her job a quite a while ago, well over a year ago. Last I heard of her recently (through a mutual friend) she got knocked up and they seemed to have issues as of recent, long story short, they moved out of state with her family to raise the baby (I guess it's all fun & games 'til you have to plan for diapers). Towards the last week of the end of the relationship I received a weird text on social media which I never got to read in time (mind she deleted this text). It was basically her new boyfriend's ex telling me he's been cheating on her with my girlfriend (now ex), I guess upon reading this text my ex decided the lie would soon be out and ended things with me. Fast-forward to the present time this guy's ex and I had been in contact for the past 4 months and had gone in 3 dates so far. She has kinda confronted her feelings towards me. Now it's a bit twisted I know, it's gone down to a point I could take it further with her, but with all honesty I'm not really attracted to her, personality & looks wise, one of the reasons her being kinda cheap (hasn't even offered to pay a dime by the third date). Now my friends tell me I should get intimate with her to get back at this guy, but really it's just not worth it, two wrongs don't make one right. I do see perhaps a friendship with her. Hope you enjoyed it a bit when the improbable and unlikely meet. Wow sounds like a very smart friend. Inhale the sarcasm!
Tribble Posted October 13, 2017 Posted October 13, 2017 What a horrid thing to even thing about. Why are you dating this woman? End it now and save her from the hurt you are going to bring down on her. This poor woman has already been through hell and back and you want to use her. For what exactly? How would this guy even find out about it. Disgusting. You clearly aren't over what happened so I think you should work through that before you date again. I honestly thought this was going to be a lovely post about how you found happiness through the gloom... 1
soyou Posted October 13, 2017 Posted October 13, 2017 Be a man and ACT AS A MAN!! The past is the past. You need to get over your ex and shouldn't care less about what happens to her. This new woman has done nothing wrong to you. Let her go! It doesnt matter who hurt you in the past or who may hurt you in the future. If you want a happy life, be nice and considerate toward other people's feelings, especially those who love, care, or are very nice toward you. 2
Author MrPlop Posted October 13, 2017 Author Posted October 13, 2017 My point exactly guys, like I said I think it could develop into a nice friendship though. So far in these past dates I don't really see a connection there, and even if that was the case, don't you think it'll just be very odd people dating each other's ex'es?
olivetree Posted October 13, 2017 Posted October 13, 2017 My point exactly guys, like I said I think it could develop into a nice friendship though. So far in these past dates I don't really see a connection there, and even if that was the case, don't you think it'll just be very odd people dating each other's ex'es? Yes, it's pretty ploppy Mr. Plop, unless you really like each other. 3
LivingWaterPlease Posted October 13, 2017 Posted October 13, 2017 My point exactly guys, like I said I think it could develop into a nice friendship though. So far in these past dates I don't really see a connection there, and even if that was the case, don't you think it'll just be very odd people dating each other's ex'es?[/QUOTE] Yet that's what you've been doing.
LivingWaterPlease Posted October 13, 2017 Posted October 13, 2017 (edited) ten characters Edited October 13, 2017 by LivingWaterPlease
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