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I cancelled, but I went through all the replies and I started wondering if I really wanna be with my bf... I love him and stuff but is he really the one? I still think about other guys so...

 

You have only been together three months and already he is not giving you the attention you need in an relationship and is cancelling meets.

 

Life too short, if someone not meeting your needs for a relationship then dump and move on.

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I cancelled, but I went through all the replies and I started wondering if I really wanna be with my bf... I love him and stuff but is he really the one? I still think about other guys so...

 

I am glad you did some introspection. When you feel yourself wanting something that seems off you need to ask yourself 'why'. You don't go around meeting other men while in a relationship without a care in the world about hurting other people.

 

Now that you realize the man you are dating does not satisfy your relationship needs you break up. Be nice about it, just tell him you're not feeling it and good luck, good bye.

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Why? Because you're extremely selfish, and you're using other people for validation instead of loving yourself. You've got low self-esteem. You're not healthy enough to be in a relationship. You're a cheater.

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You have only been together three months and already he is not giving you the attention you need in an relationship and is cancelling meets.

 

Life too short, if someone not meeting your needs for a relationship then dump and move on.

 

6 months ;) But we know each other for a year or even longer actually. He always gives me a lot of attention, something just changed recently, he is not really cancelling meetings, we don't even schedule them.

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Why? Because you're extremely selfish, and you're using other people for validation instead of loving yourself. You've got low self-esteem. You're not healthy enough to be in a relationship. You're a cheater.

 

What do you mean I'm a cheater? I've never cheated on anyone and this feeling is new to me, I was never looking elsewhere, until now and I need an answer why.

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What do you mean I'm a cheater? I've never cheated on anyone and this feeling is new to me, I was never looking elsewhere, until now and I need an answer why.

 

maybe you're not attracted to him anymore?

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What do you mean I'm a cheater? I've never cheated on anyone and this feeling is new to me, I was never looking elsewhere, until now and I need an answer why.

 

You're in a relationship, yet you're setting up a date with somebody else. That's cheating. It's a betrayal.

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