blondygirl13 Posted October 11, 2017 Posted October 11, 2017 (edited) hi everyone the name is blondygirl13 , i am anonymous writer who lives in california and is willing for awnsers on this topic about this guy i have been seeing and i want your advice and what should i do. , thank you:) Okay , so i just met this guy last Sunday of September 28th on this place where i go local on sundays , out and about with no expectations watching football , apparently so he sat next to me and got to know me. we got along , we exchange #'s . We hang the next day Monday Hiking , got to know each other more then we kissed first time. then we hang Wednesday for dinner , then we had fun and got to know each other more , he took me back to his place to drink more wine. Then we had the talk he said " i want you to be my girl " i want to be exclusive so that means he wants me to not date other men or him dating other women. i would think its a serious talk. Plus i was going to see him Sunday after he goes to the wedding for Friday to sat! so i saw him on Sunday we were watching football , he kept sleeping didn't even want to talk me , couldn't have sex with him bc i was on my ladies day , so he kinda ignored me for the whole night. then we went to bed , apparently he didn't lock his door , next day is Monday , i wake up 6:30 am i find a sticky note with a girl with her lips and her# ,plus i never saw this sticky note on sunday night so i kinda confronted him and he said well these girls kinda snuck into my house , he made me coffee , he made me do his clothes , do some of his chores feed his plants i was so nice to do it . But we go for a run workout , he doesn't talk to me he's quiet not the same guy met , he tried to be affectionate for a little bit , like monday my mom went to the hospital and he was like sorry didn't even comfort me at all. so he hugged me and gave me a peck , said call me later. i honestly not here to play games he 35 and I'm younger so what. Then couple hours he hit me up " hey I'm so sorry about your mom , hope she okay " why he didn't help me before . plus i found out he was doing pot and it made him really quiet , what should i do ? i was thinking to get away move on , but i had a feeling he talking to other girls and he has tons of girlfriends please help Edited October 11, 2017 by a LoveShack.org Moderator
Gaeta Posted October 11, 2017 Posted October 11, 2017 Just delete this guy, he has nothing good to give you. You only had a couple of dates and he made you do his chores??? and ironed his clothes!! He's an idiot. It's not because a man is older that it makes him better. On top of that he's smoking pot...enough said. He is only going to bring you heartaches. 2
d0nnivain Posted October 11, 2017 Posted October 11, 2017 It hasn't even been a month & you are unhappy. There are other women who feel comfortable enough to come in his house uninvited at night. He smokes pot & ignores you. Where is the upside to this guy? 1
Miss Spider Posted October 11, 2017 Posted October 11, 2017 I feel like this doesn't belong in the general dating forum. It is specific and it would get more response in the other. But yes he is playing you and some other girls 2
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