Travis_M Posted October 10, 2017 Posted October 10, 2017 Ok this could get a bit long but I will shorten it up as much as I can the following will be in the order that it happened starting about mid September to last interaction today Oct 10. First interaction went to the gym one evening and noticed a cute girl that keeps staring at me and quickly looks away every chance she could get this continues the entire time she was there for the 45 minutes of her workout and ended with us both catching each others eyes and she smiled at me. Second interaction she showed up at the gym with a guy and I am friends with this guy and his brothers and he is gay. I did not approach them during their workout but noticed her again staring at me, sometimes around corners or even between workout machines, later that evening I talked to the gay mutual friend of ours over text he mentioned her name to me and we chatted for a while and when we ended the conversation he asked me "just curious how old are you again". I told him I was 39 she is 27, I get often mistaken as being much younger than I actually am. He also stated that "you look like the guy from ghost adventures, chicks dig that look" Third interaction I got introduced to the girl and she appeared very shy said a quick hello to me and got so nervous she was fidgeting all over, turned around in a circle mumbled something I could not understand and then turned away as if embarrassed. Forth interaction our gay mutual friend text me asking me to come to the gym tonight so I went at the end of our workout they both approached me she stood very close to me our shoulders touching every so often and had a good conversation. Another blonde lady entered the conversation and seemed like she already knew me and introduced herself to me. Later the next day I sent the girl a message asking who the blonde lady was and that she was very nice but she never responded back to me. So I asked our gay friend who she was and he laughed stating that it was her mother lol so I got introduced to her mother without knowing it was her mother. Fifth interaction I approached her and tried talking to her one on one and she was so nervous she was mumbling about supper and relatives and things that didn't make sense so I just threw it out there "lets do lunch sometime" She turned to me and said in a squeaky voice "I have a boyfriend" which I think was a lie but not entirely sure. Several weeks passed and had no interaction and the other day our gay mutual friend texts me and say come to the gym tomorrow night which was tonight. I went and I noticed that she parked right beside me tonight as she usually don't do this. when I was leaving they approached me again and she was talkative seems she is ok as long as she has someone else with her but one on one she is a wreck. Last interaction gay mutual friend texts me and asks what I am doing on the 28th for Halloween I said nothing I don't have to work. At this point he asks me to join him and her for a Halloween party so I told him sure I will tag along. Not 30 seconds later he responds Great I already told her you are coming and she is down with it. How am I suppose to read what is going on here sorry if this sounds like a kids game just confused. Any input is greatly appreciated. I was informed from an outside source that knows her that she is hard to get to know and went through some hard times but did not specify.
ExpatInItaly Posted October 10, 2017 Posted October 10, 2017 I think she is nervous around you because she knows you're interested, but she's not. A single woman who is curious about you doesn't lie about having a boyfriend. Either she actually does, or she lied because she's trying to indirectly signal that she's not interested. Sorry, OP. I don't see much positive here, other than your mutual friend thinks you're cool and would like to get to be better friends with you.
GemmaUK Posted October 10, 2017 Posted October 10, 2017 She told you she got a boyfriend - not the action of someone who is interested whether it's the truth or not. Sounds like perhaps you like her mum. In all honesty the person showing you most interest though is your mutual gay friend. He appears to be the one pushing for friendship or maybe something more from you.
Author Travis_M Posted October 10, 2017 Author Posted October 10, 2017 yea figures I never knew much about women just stay single I am tired of it. I work in the field of corrections as a corrections officer. I see female employee's fall in love with inmates and get fired at least every month in the end it don't work out for them. I don't get it Just sick of the BS and games involved. thanks for your input. I have been trying to get out of this rotten shell I am in since a divorce and was feeling positive not anymore just plain old irritated beyond recognition. Not anyones fault I am just sick of it. I try to do everything right. In better shape than the majority and not bad looking I know just not interested in the ones that are into me. I just want someone like me and not going to find it screw it I am so done.
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